Fondling a girl. Forbidden caresses for a woman. How to move to a new stage

The Internet has become an integral part of the life of almost every person, dating on the street has long lost its relevance, so many are wondering how to interest a penpal girl, and we will help you with this.

It is much easier to express your thoughts and feelings without seeing the interlocutor, you can think over each phrase, choose the right words... Having mastered several simple tricks, you can easily learn, so that almost from the first lines you leave an indelible impression of yourself.

You can find a soul mate or just make a pleasant acquaintance with the help of social network Vkontakte, because millions are registered there beautiful girls, and there are all the tools for a successful search and acquaintance.

How to interest a girl in VK - clean the page

A page on a social network can tell a lot about its owner. Before responding to messages, the girl, for a start, will familiarize herself in detail with the profile of a potential fan. Her first assessment will be based solely on the information read on the personal VK page. All the dirt should be removed so as not to inadvertently scare the beauty away:

Beaten popular statuses, also openly obscene, degrading the dignity of the opposite sex;
Interesting pages should not contain pornographic communities, alcohol propaganda and pickup training groups;
Frankly stupid posts on the wall, a lot of advertising posts and outright spam, this characterizes you as a careless person who does not follow what is happening on his page;
Pictures surrounded by a cheeky drunk company, unkempt friends in tracksuits, selfies taken during tomorrow or dinner, and just a photo in the wrong angle;
Pornographic pictures with unambiguous inscriptions;
The phone number is publicly available, then she decides that you are available to everyone;
Videos about Internet games and clips with heavy, incomprehensible music.

It is better not to be lazy and to approach profile editing thoroughly, subjecting every element of the page to a thorough analysis. This will help to win the heart of the girl you like much faster.

Preparing your profile

The profile should be interesting and intriguing, so that after reading the information provided, the girl will certainly want to answer you. The page should stand out from total mass accounts on the open spaces of VK.

Try to be concise and concise. It is not necessary to fill out absolutely all the points of the questionnaire. When indicating information "about yourself", show your imagination, indicate interesting books, write a few provocative phrases that catch on, thereby arousing her interest.

A creatively completed profile will further simplify the task than to interest the penpal girl, because after looking at the information, she herself will want to know more about you. The fair sex is very curious, and a good intrigue will help you achieve results in the shortest possible time. There are things that play a decisive role in a girl's decision to continue correspondence or not, they should be given special attention:

Family status... This status further determines the nature of your relationship. It all directly depends on the purpose of dating, whether you are looking for a companion for a long time or you need an object for flirting. An adventure lover is unlikely to be scared off by your spouse, while serious girl won't waste your time. If you leave the line free or write "everything is difficult", this will serve as an impetus for the beauty to find out the truth and enter into a dialogue with you;
How old is a potential fan... Everything is simple here, it is enough to write truthful information, because a lie in such a matter will sooner or later come out;
Friends... Friends list is carefully scrutinized total amount how many girls who are they. He will definitely check which of famous people you are subscribed. Here you need to choose the middle ground;
Updates... The young lady is interested to know if you are often “on the net”, or if you can disappear from sight for a long time. Therefore, try to update the information on the page more often, add new photos or interesting news. But do not overdo it so that you do not get the impression that you have nothing to do except sit at the computer for days.

The main and main detail that the beauty looks at in the first place is the photo. High-quality images are the key to success. She can close her eyes to many things, but if the photograph is repulsive, no tricks will help. A couple of unsightly photographs from a century ago will also not add to your chances. Therefore, it is worth making an effort and taking high-quality pictures in a photo studio with a professional photographer. Such pictures can interest a potential darling:

You are depicted in the background beautiful landscapes, in different cities or countries;
Cultural rest by the company in nature;
Home photos that show coziness and understanding in the family;
Together with animals;
Pictures of a sports nature, in the pool, gym.

When posting a photo, write a couple of lines below it so that the lady can understand your thoughts. Do not give the impression of a male in love with yourself by posting one photo after another without a single comment.

The very first phrase should immediately distinguish you from the general crowd of fans, leave a lasting impression. After all, as practice shows, it is practically impossible to change the first opinion about a person later.

There is win-win options, how to interest a girl in VK, you just need to carefully study her profile and find common interests. Join the groups to which the beauty is subscribed (of course, if this is not a cutting and sewing community). Based on the information received, try to determine the character of the lady. Who is she, timid quiet, restless beast, kind sympathetic or vice versa vicious rebel? This will help you write your first message in the right key.

Important! The first appeal to a girl should be in the form of a question. After all, a well-mannered person cannot leave a question unanswered. When asking her about something, be original - this is your key to success.

Completely eliminate the banality, forget the phrases: "Hello, how are you?", "Not busy?", "I liked you, let's get acquainted!". A few examples of a non-standard message:

“Hello, you have such beautiful colour eyes, it is simply impossible to take your eyes off. Probably in real life you can drown in them at all? " Ladies love flattery, and after such words, she will certainly want to answer you;
"Good day! I see you are in a dog society (the right breed), I want to get myself a puppy, but I don’t know how to choose one. If it doesn't bother you, can you advise? " Almost any girl will agree to help a man;
“I wonder how much for today, have you already managed to burn hearts? After all, when you look at you, you instantly burn out of your beauty. " A message in a semi-humorous form mixed with a compliment, a lady with a sense of humor will definitely not resist.

You can choose the exact phrase only based on the hobbies and interests of the object of desires. Show your imagination and let her feel your personality, literally from the first phrase.

How to communicate with a girl on the Internet to get her interested - 10 basic rules

The main thing is to determine the goals for which you start an Internet acquaintance. And in the future, following several simple rules, you can easily make the beauty look forward to your appearance "on the network".

Lack of falsity. Ladies feel subtly if the interlocutor is insincere, and will easily notice inconsistencies in your stories;
Funny guy. The fan who is for everything life situations looks with humor, arouses keen interest and a desire to communicate. After all, you can always cheer up the young lady;
Attentive. Pay attention to the little things, take an interest in her affairs. Girls love to talk and especially when they are also listened to;
Her opinion is important. Ask her advice on how to act in a given situation, let her feel her importance in your life;
Don't bother. Sitting at the computer all the time and bombarding her with messages is not worth it. She also needs to answer at regular intervals. So that you don't get the impression that you have nothing else to do besides her;
Mysteriousness. Leave some facts of your biography unsaid. Let there be room for her fantasies, the more she thinks about you, the better;
Affectionate. Address the young lady by name, use an affectionate form whenever possible. Remember the truth - women love with their ears;
Self-irony. Learn to laugh at your shortcomings. Don't over-praise yourself;
Erudition. Young ladies like well-rounded gentlemen. Try to show her a wide range of your knowledge. Avoid using any obscene language when communicating;
Straightforwardness in conversations. Girls are captivated by honesty, so don't be afraid to voice your desires.

Each girl is different, and an approach that works for one can have the opposite effect on another. Pick up The right way how to communicate with a girl on the Internet, in order to interest her, everyone can, the main thing is courage and desire to achieve a result.

If you do not succeed the first time, you should not be upset. Failure makes us stronger, gives us invaluable life experience. And grandiose victories lie ahead.

Begins with correspondence on the forum, or chat, or with a letter on a dating site. In any case, at first you can get the girl interested in how you communicate in writing. So try to keep general rules decency: do not swear, do not be rude, do not write frank vulgarities.

Find out what the girl is interested in, what her hobbies, favorite films. If you met on a forum or dating site, do not be lazy to read her entire profile or her entire profile, and not just look at the photo. Talk about what you like, ask questions - all women love to talk about themselves and their hobbies.

If a girl asks to see yours, post only those where you are in focus, come out well and preferably without other girls in the frame, especially your exes. The more original the pictures are, the more likely it is that she will be interested in you. Stories and photographs about travel and pets are especially appreciated.

Make gifts. It is possible even on the Internet: virtual flowers, postcards, voices or plus signs for the girl's photos. Signs of attention are pleasant to anyone, and faster she will reciprocate to the one who expresses her feelings more vividly.

Preparing for seduction

Don't expect super fast results. Even using the most effective techniques seduction will not put a girl to bed in just 2 minutes. The maximum that you can achieve is to quickly win over the interlocutor to yourself and in the future get what you want with almost one hundred percent probability.

The first thing to do is choose a place where you will seduce the girl. As practice shows, in almost every city there is an institution or an open area, which is visited by girls who initially want to get to know each other. For example, it can be a cozy corner in a city park hidden from prying eyes, a bar counter in a trendy nightclub, or a hall in a shopping center. Find out from your friends or on the Internet about such places in your locality.

Think about which type of girl is right for you. the best way... Of course, in theory, you can win over almost any representative of the fair sex, but there must also be a type with which you can quickly find mutual language... For example, these can be girls of medium or tall stature, with bright or discreet makeup, with an intelligent or carefree look, belonging to one or another subculture, etc.

Work on your appearance... You don’t have to dress brightly, but you do have to look neat enough. Train your gaze. This is one of essential tools quick seduction. It is best to do this in front of a mirror. It is not necessary to open your eyes wide and "play" with your eyebrows. It is enough to learn to look at the girl with confidence, without looking away, and at the same time to smile slightly.

Choose for yourself several models of phrases that you will exchange with the girl at the first. The most effective compliments are light compliments, spoken confidently and without excessive flattery. Try to be laconic, for example: “Girl, you are adorable. I just have to find out what your name is. "

The process of dating and seduction

The very process of dating and seduction looks like this: after you notice a girl you like, try to meet her eyes. Maintain eye contact and smile slightly. By the expression on the girl's face, it will be possible to understand whether you are interested in her or not. Walk up to her without hurrying or arousing her suspicion. Smile and in a confident tone offer to meet and chat with her, or accompany her to her destination if she is going somewhere or traveling.

Try to act quickly. You should immediately interest the girl and inspire her trust in you. You will be able to do this if you determine the approximate course of her thoughts, understand what she likes, what kind of person she is. After that, the most desperate guys sometimes immediately, under various pretexts, invite a girl, for example, to their home. Others quickly get a phone number from her and after a while call to make an appointment in more romantic conditions.

Remember not to abuse the girls' trust. Don't cheat them and don't use them "for one night's sake." The tactic of quick acquaintance is better and more tactful to use in order to find a girl for a long and serious relationship.

How many articles have been written about this, but still for many men the problem of finding a partner or life partner remains a big problem. Let's try to figure out how to behave in order to find success in your personal life.

Appearance when meeting

Whoever says anything, it really matters. Nobody wants to date a foul-smelling person in untidy clothes and torn shoes? Here, of course, the main thing is not to overdo it: if you smell of perfume so that you can't breathe, and you yourself are dressed like a ragamuffin who has just grabbed for money, then naturally, this will push the girl away from you. Better to choose clothes in accordance with your image: elegant macho or brutal jock - all types have their own specific traits, based on which you should choose what to wear. The main condition is that clothes and shoes must be clean and tidy. You should choose a perfume that doesn't look too stifling or frankly looks cheap. Hair should be washed and trimmed. If you have long hair, then they should look well-groomed. If you cut your hair to zero, then leave everything as it is, do not try to let your hair go if the girl has never asked you to. Perhaps she is impressed by your resemblance to Vin Diesel or Bruce Willes.

Confidence and charisma - show it in conversation

Being confident in yourself definitely does not mean that you have to interrupt everyone around you or chatter incessantly. But, you need to speak clearly and without any tremors in your voice. You must admit that no one will feel comfortable sitting on a date with a person who is as stressful as having a pleasant pastime together as being dragged out by the chef on the carpet. Speak in a relaxed manner, do not interrupt. Smile more and you will be happy.

There is no need to cross the line and stoop to boorish behavior. Getting drunk for courage before a date is also not the best option, although it is abundantly exploited by literature and cinema. To show your charisma, it's best to just joke. Rarely, but aptly. If you love to sing, then find a real reason for it. For example, it is appropriate for a hike or barbecue around the fire. You can sing a song at a party.

You read poetry well - you have cards in your hands. Just do not do it too pretentious, otherwise you can become a laughing stock for your partner. Everything is good when it is in moderation.

Humor can help overcome fear

Trust me, dating is not as bad as you might think. There is nothing reprehensible in this, the main thing is just not to show it and skillfully hide it. A couple of jokes can always smooth things over. Swedish scientists have proven that laughter helps fight fear: it breaks down psychological barriers. And if a girl laughs at your jokes, that already says something, doesn't it?

You entertain her, she is good with you, and she will want to be in your company again and again. The main thing is that she also has a great sense of humor. If she is a sophisticated person, then her sense of humor is also appropriate. She will not laugh at how someone fell and hit hard, but she can laugh until she drops at how you funny depicted the fall.

Be interesting in communication

But this is more complicated. If everything is clear with the first three points, they are almost universal, then problems already arise - we are all human, and it is sometimes hard to understand what is interesting for a girl. And here the ability to ask questions comes to the rescue. So you can get out of her grains of information, which in such a situation is almost worth its weight in gold. Further it is easier - if your interests coincide, then the conversation will not be so difficult. And if not? Try something neutral and ask about her life. Almost everyone has something to cling to when discussing. If you already do not know anything about her hobbies, you can just ask in detail - most likely, she will be happy to tell you about it.

Be athletic

Of course, not everyone can boast of a body. Greek god... But, to take care of yourself, if you have already decided to find yourself a life partner, it is very desirable. It is not necessary, of course, to become a professional bodybuilder or a circus strongman. In order to look good, a man often needs minimal dietary restrictions (with a tendency to be overweight) and three to four hours in the gym per week.

Remember, a healthy mind is in a healthy body! And you carry the bride in your arms at the wedding. Sometimes - along a humpbacked bridge, which is more difficult for respiratory system when you go up. When you descend, you just need to be dexterous and keep your balance well. For the sake of this alone, you can not go to the gym, if time does not allow you, but work out at home. Kettlebells, dumbbells and a small exercise machine like "Easy Step" will help you to be in shape. It's also a good idea to do exercises to train the vestibular apparatus. This will come in handy too.

How you can interest a girl and attract her into your life

Nothing brings you closer together as common interests. If you do not know what the girl you like is interested in, then you need to figure it out somehow. The easiest way is with her friends. Even if she loves cooking more than anything else in the world, do not rush to attribute this hobby to a purely female one. In restaurants, it is often men who are the chefs. So if your bachelor table is simple, it's just time to try to diversify it, at the same time learning some culinary subtleties. After all, then there will be something to talk about. In addition, she will clearly pay attention to young man who knows how to cook exotic dishes.

Does she like to knit or embroider? You don't have to do this either, but being able to appreciate such work is very important. And to express admiration means to “hook” your girlfriend correctly.

What can we say about such things that people of both sexes can get carried away with:

tourism (both hiking in the forest and trips abroad);
sports (both being a fan and doing something yourself);
music (be a fan or play an instrument);
cars (just drive or understand the brands of cars, their structure, etc.).

And there are many such examples. You can even find some kind of minimal point of contact, but develop a great friendship from it. The main thing is to show interest in the girl's so-called spiritual body, that is, in what she lives and breathes, which is especially important for her. Maybe she just loves pets, and you tell her how you hate cats or dogs. And then get an implacable enemy in her face. In general, it is always better to talk about what you love, and not about what you dislike. Getting together on a positive wave is always better than "being friends against someone." An exception may be a situation when you need to immediately punish the offenders of your chosen one. This should not be a cruel revenge, but rather an exemplary punishment. But the best option is immediate protection. Nevertheless, such situations do not happen often, and deliberately provoking them is already a game on two fronts.

If everything is quiet and peaceful in the life of the chosen one, then you can still find a reason to interest her, for example, when communicating on the Internet.

Get the attention of a pen girl on the internet

If you are going to take on such a game, then you need to do it incognito first. Girls love different secrets, so this style of communication will be much better accepted than frank, unambiguous offers to "make love" or announcements "looking for a partner for sex." At best, you will be mistaken for a maniac and not answered. At worst, they will be "banned" on the forum or sent to hell in a "personal". And even if the computer, as well as the paper, endures everything, you need to remain noble, and then the chances increase.

By SMS in VK (in contact), on a dating site

The controversial issue of whether it is possible to hook a girl by SMS, in fact, is well resolved if you build the right dialogue. But for this you need to know her number exactly. This can be either an employee or a girl from the company. At the very least, you should have mutual acquaintances. And then you can act. If there are no such connections, then it is better to look for a girl on a social network. This alone imposes certain responsibilities on you.

If you stayed with her and left a message, then you need to be "hospitable" yourself. In the same way as we prepare the house for the arrival of dear guests, we need to figure it out on our Vkontakte page. It is necessary to remove all obscene expressions. In this social network, there is no direct prohibition on mate, but a girl can be cultured, and mate at first will repulse her, like any unflattering statement about female field generally. Next, you will have to revise the photos. Explicit "compromising evidence" will have to be removed. For example, photographs of orgies, in which, perhaps, you are not, but still ... For now, you can also refuse photographs where you look extremely unpresentable. It is clear that earlier you posted this in order to laugh with your friends. But in this situation, you with a tub on your head or cake cream on your face is not the most best view for acquaintance.

Dialogue examples

It is always worth starting a dialogue with intrigue. On a social network, you can write to a girl that yesterday you saw her in the city, and she is much prettier in life than in the photograph, although in the photo, too, wow! On the one hand, it's a compliment. On the other hand, you will make her think about you: where did you get it, that you fell for her so much and quickly found her page. Have you photographed her or tortured acquaintances about her name? This will make her show a typically feminine curiosity.

The intrigue can also be contained in telephone messages. It is even better to start with SMS, and not voice communication.

It might look like this:

I never thought before that you are so ...
- What do you mean, such? - she will answer.
“You yourself should know that for sure.
- What exactly?
- Didn't they tell you?
- Who and what?
- For example, my friends?
- Never!
- Yes, this cannot be!
- What can't?
- So that no one ever tells you that you are so cool! Just an amazing beauty!

The longer this dialogue is stretched, the more intrigue there will be in it. But you shouldn't drag it out too much, because she may stop responding.

You can't do with just one phone. You need to somehow arrange a date with her, because this is a logical move to continue communication. If your SMS correspondence has improved, then you need to invite her to find out what your voice is. Live communication will take your relationship to a new level. And then you can already meet. If intrigue is observed, then the girl will not even know what you look like. And now the time will come when it is worth throwing off the mask. This, of course, has some risk. After all, she can already build a wonderful macho image, and you are a nondescript nerd of small stature. Then all the more you need to furnish everything beautifully and show that you know how to look after girls. Give flowers, tell interesting stories or anecdotes, showing beautiful landscapes or inviting you to the cinema - all this is at your disposal. The main thing is that the lady does not get bored compared to the intensity that was when communicating via SMS.

I want to get my ex-girlfriend's attention, is it worth it?

The girl does not always go to the guy, who will then treat her better than you did. She can "bite" on the external shine, but then she will not notice how it turns out to be a kind of background for the guy, " free application", And even with her he will flirt with other girls. If he is used to always being in sight, then he will remain so. For him, the audience is more important than solitude. And if you noticed that your ex-girlfriend with him just disappears, then this is an excuse to return it. Perhaps she already regrets the breakup and herself would like to return everything back on track.

But if she is seriously in love with a new guy, then it will be almost impossible to return her. That is, you should not do this right away. You have to wait for her to be disappointed in him. It is she. If he leaves her himself, this does not mean at all that there will be no place for him in her heart. Yes, she will mourn this love, but she will become unapproachable to others. Here you can only gradually wipe away her tears and be there as a comforter, but in no case impose the old relationship. You need to give her soul to get sick, and then the girl will see that she is not alone, that there is a person nearby, and what better could she wish!

Psychology of attractiveness: what girls pay attention to

They meet by their clothes - so the proverb says. But both appearance and clothing can be different, however, girls find something in guys that they would certainly like. Some people like brunettes, others like brown-haired or blondes. But in reality it turns out that the chosen one may not have the "declared" hair color or even skin! And the girls pay attention not to the parameters of the face, not to the chosen style, but more to the ability to wear these clothes, the manner of conversation and gestures. That is, something that somehow exposes a person's soul.

Therefore, you do not need to be squeezed and drive yourself into some kind of framework. You don't have to try to be someone else who, from a girl's point of view, is "good" or generally "perfect." You have to be yourself, because you yourself are not so bad. If you strive to be, say, Elvis Presley or Arnold Schwarzenegger, then you can skip the girl who was interested in you at that moment.

Pretty girls don't notice me - I'm a loser, what to do

Objections can also be found for such a situation: "Well, how and why to be yourself if I was born a failure?" In the end, it may come to the point that you consider yourself worthy only of that "gray rat" with thin pigtails and glasses, but not the queen of the ball. But it is precisely this position that can speak of your low self-esteem and at the same time creating the ideal girl who would be suitable for you. Thus, you count on being worthy only of the queen of the ball, and you will not consider yourself a successful person if you don't get her location.

But you are already sure in advance that they will not pay any attention to you. Becoming the king of the ball is not available to you. Boasting steel muscles is unrealistic. Shyness and bad memory... But you can tell stories from life in paints. If this happened to you, then you remember it, and you won't have to memorize anything on purpose. And do not try to do it in front of the queen of the ball. You will still be shy in front of her. And try asking out the one you recently thought was the "gray rat." Most likely, this ugly duckling will turn into a beautiful swan before the date. Even if not with such a stately gait, albeit of short stature, an elegant, well-groomed and completely nice girl... It is not a fact that you will continue to date, but the fact that you have a date will give you confidence in yourself. It will be easier further!

Before you interest a girl, you need to understand that you cannot interest everyone in a row, you are not a dollar bill so that everyone will like it. There are girls to whom no matter how you try to reach out with your correspondence, they will still leave you ignored. Take it for granted and pay attention to those girls who show reciprocity.

So, what to write to a girl to meet on the Internet, I already wrote in an early article, now let's move on to making your correspondence with the girl interesting for her. To get a girl interested on the Internet, you don't need any supernatural abilities. Your task is to conduct a conversation correctly, have a couple of interesting stories in stock and be able to develop your communication.

Every time you communicate and meet a new girl, you will notice that it is easy to communicate with one girl, but the correspondence does not work well with the other. It all depends on your characters and mutual interest, here it is impossible to predict exactly all the details, but there are a couple of tips on how to interest a girl.

Your personal interest. The biggest success in the interest of the girl is your personal interest in communication. If you are interested in a girl, you will try in every possible way to interest her in communication on the Internet. As soon as you feel your inner interest in her, so immediately you will begin to try in every way to interest her.

Conduct an active virtual correspondence with the girl. This does not mean constantly texting her, even if she doesn’t answer. This means maintaining virtual contact with the girl. Within the limits of a virtual acquaintance, be a good storyteller for her and at the same time do not lose the thread of communication that can be lost due to a long absence from the network.

Follow and be interested in her virtual and real life. If you met on a social network, then every day, quarter, period she has updates on her personal page, comment on her photos, statuses, etc. Take an interest in her real life, events, etc. At the time when you are interested in her, automatically her interest in you arises as well. If at the first stages in your communication there is reciprocity in interest, then this is a great sign.

Surprise her with your abilities. In addition, tell her about your interests, maybe your preferences in music, cinema, painting, art will interest her. Can you draw on Vkontakte? Great, a great excuse to show your abilities, and if she likes it, she will be interested in your abilities. Can you beatbox or make music? Write it down and send it to her online. Are you a photographer? Share colorful photos. You travelling? Tell us about the places you've visited.

Be unpredictable and unusual. Today you are perky, tomorrow you are serious, today you wrote to her "Hello, my princess", and tomorrow you save her from some evil guys on the network who are trying to offend her, you are a superhero on the network, but this is your profession, to prove to her that You are better than the hundreds of friends she has on the Internet.

Tell her about your active life. Let her know that Internet communication is just a variety in your life. Tell us how you spend your free time, focus more on your real life... Your hobbies, hobbies, sports.

Take care of the ease of communication. The best way on the way to gaining interest, let the girl relax mentally. Just give her an easy correspondence without any tension of convolutions. It is not worth calculating the root from a constant, simple, easy and informal communication, this is what she needs.

Intrigue and understatement. It is especially easy to intrigue the type of girls who want to know a lot and often ask you about your life. Of course, not all, but some points can be hidden openly, as if you tell her about it, but when you meet. She will be interested not only in you, but also in the meeting itself, just do not forget to fulfill the promise.

Original topics of conversation. This blog already has 25 topics for conversation , but the originality of topics for communication sometimes lies in the simplicity and singularity of presentation. The fact that no one has ever written to the girl on the Internet. In general, imagine as if you have already invited her to get married in the Bahamas on one of the thousand islands, but first, she must go with you to some cozy cafe and discuss all the details of your future marriage. To beat everything supposedly as a joke, but at the same time be original at the same time.

Give her a smile. If you can make her laugh and give her a share of the positive, she will always consider you an interesting and funny guy. Playful jokes, funny situations from life, all this will simply add pluses to your communication, and also interest her in your person.