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Good manners

One of the basic principles modern life is to maintain normal relationships between people and the desire to avoid conflicts. In turn, respect and attention can only be earned by maintaining politeness and restraint. Therefore, nothing is valued as dearly by the people around us as politeness and delicacy. But in life we ​​often have to deal with rudeness, harshness, and disrespect for the personality of another person. The reason here is that we underestimate the culture of human behavior, his manners.

Manners- a way of holding oneself, the external form of behavior, treatment of other people, expressions used in speech, tone, intonation, characteristic gait, gestures and even facial expressions.

In society, good manners are considered to be a person’s modesty and restraint, the ability to control one’s actions, and to communicate carefully and tactfully with other people. Bad manners are considered to be the habit of speaking loudly, without hesitation in expressions, swagger in gestures and behavior, sloppiness in clothing, rudeness, manifested in open hostility towards others, in disregard for other people's interests and requests, in the shameless imposition of one's will and desires on other people, in the inability to restrain one’s irritation, in deliberately insulting the dignity of people around him, in tactlessness, foul language, and the use of humiliating nicknames.

Manners relate to the culture of human behavior and are regulated by etiquette. Etiquette implies a benevolent and respectful attitude towards all people, regardless of their position and social status. It includes polite treatment of a woman, respectful attitude towards elders, forms of addressing elders, forms of address and greeting, rules of conversation, behavior at the table. In general, etiquette in a civilized society coincides with general requirements politeness, which are based on the principles of humanism.

Required condition communication is delicacy. Delicacy should not be excessive, turn into flattery, or lead to unjustified praise of what is seen or heard. There is no need to try hard to hide the fact that you are seeing, listening to, tasting something for the first time, fearing that otherwise you will be considered ignorant.

Politeness

Everyone knows the expressions: “cold politeness”, “icy politeness”, “disdainful politeness”, in which epithets are added to this beautiful human quality, not only kill his essence, but turn it into its opposite.

Emerson defines politeness as “the sum of small sacrifices” we make to those around us with whom we enter into certain life relationships.

Unfortunately, the wonderful saying of Cervantes has been completely erased: “Nothing is so cheap and nothing is valued so dearly as politeness.” True politeness can only be benevolent, since it is one of the manifestations of sincere, disinterested benevolence towards all other people with whom a person meets at work, in the house where he lives, in in public places. With workmates and with many everyday acquaintances, politeness can turn into friendship, but organic goodwill towards people in general is an obligatory basis for politeness. Authentic culture behavior - where a person’s actions in all situations, their content and external manifestation follow from the moral principles of morality and correspond to them.

One of the main elements of politeness is the ability to remember names. This is how D. Carneg talks about it. "The reason most people don't remember names is because they don't want to spend the time and energy to focus, commit, and indelibly imprint those names in their memory. They make excuses for themselves that they're too busy. However, they are unlikely to do more busy than Franklin Roosevelt, and he found time to remember and, on occasion, to resurrect in his memory even the names of the mechanics with whom he had to come into contact... F. Roosevelt knew that one of the simplest, most intelligible and most effective ways winning the favor of others means remembering their names and instilling in them a sense of their own importance."

Tactfulness and sensitivity

The content of these two noble human qualities, attention, deep respect for inner world those with whom we communicate, the desire and ability to understand them, to feel what can give them pleasure, joy, or vice versa, cause them irritation, annoyance, and resentment. Tactfulness and sensitivity are also a sense of proportion that should be observed in conversation, in personal and work relationships, the ability to sense the boundary beyond which, as a result of our words and actions, a person experiences undeserved offense, grief, and sometimes pain. A tactful person always takes into account specific circumstances: differences in age, gender, social status, place of conversation, presence or absence of strangers.

Respect for others is a prerequisite for tact, even between good comrades. You've probably encountered a situation where at a meeting someone casually throws out "nonsense", "nonsense", etc. during the speeches of his comrades. This behavior often becomes the reason that when he himself begins to speak out, even his sound judgments are met with coldness by the audience. They say about such people:

“Nature has given him so much respect for people that he only has enough of it for himself.” Self-respect without respect for others inevitably degenerates into conceit, conceit, and arrogance.

A culture of behavior is equally obligatory on the part of the subordinate in relation to the superior. It is expressed primarily in an honest attitude to one’s duties, in strict discipline, as well as respect, politeness, and tact towards the leader. The same applies to colleagues. Demanding respectful treatment of yourself, ask more often with a question: do you answer them in the same way?

Tactfulness and sensitivity also imply the ability to quickly and accurately determine the reaction of interlocutors to our statements, actions and necessary cases self-critically, without a sense of false shame, apologize for the mistake made. This will not only not diminish your dignity, but, on the contrary, will strengthen it in the opinion of thinking people, showing them your extremely valuable human trait - modesty.

Modesty

“A man who talks only about himself thinks only about himself,” says D. Carnegie. “And a man who thinks only about himself is hopelessly uncultured. He is uncultured, no matter how highly educated he may be.”

A modest person never strives to show himself better, more capable, smarter than others, does not emphasize his superiority, his qualities, does not demand any privileges, special amenities, or services for himself.

At the same time, modesty should not be associated with timidity or shyness. These are completely different categories. Very often, modest people turn out to be much firmer and more active in critical circumstances, but it is known that it is impossible to convince them that they are right by arguing.

D. Carnegie writes: “You can make it clear to a person that he is wrong with a look, intonation or gesture no less eloquently than with words, but if you tell him that he is wrong, will you thereby force him to agree with you ?Never! For you dealt a direct blow to his intellect, his common sense, his pride and self-esteem. This will only make him want to strike back, but not change his mind." The following fact is cited:

During his stay in the White House, T. Roosevelt once admitted that if he were right in seventy-five cases out of a hundred, he could not wish for anything better. "If this was the maximum that one of the most outstanding people twentieth century, what can be said about you and me?” asks D. Carnegie and concludes: “If you can be sure that you are right at least in fifty-five cases out of a hundred, then why should you tell others that they are wrong?” .

Indeed, you have probably witnessed how someone else, watching the raging debaters, can put an end to a misunderstanding with a friendly, tactful remark, a sympathetic desire to understand the point of view of both debaters.

You should never start with the statement “I will prove such and such to you.” This, psychologists say, is the equivalent of saying, "I'm smarter than you, I'm going to tell you something and make you change your mind." It's a challenge. This creates internal resistance in your interlocutor and a desire to fight with you before you start an argument.

To prove something, you need to do it so subtly, so skillfully that no one will feel it.

D. Carnegie considers one of the golden rules to be the following: “People should be taught as if you had not taught them. And unfamiliar things should be presented as if they were forgotten.” Calmness, diplomacy, a deep understanding of the interlocutor’s argumentation, well-thought-out counter-argumentation based on accurate facts - this is the solution to this contradiction between the requirements of “good form” in discussions and firmness in defending one’s opinion.

Good manners

Nowadays, almost everywhere there is a desire to simplify many of the conventions prescribed by general civil etiquette. This is one of the signs of the times: the pace of life, social and living conditions that have changed and continue to change rapidly have a strong influence on etiquette. Therefore, a lot of what was accepted at the beginning or middle of our century may now seem absurd.

However, the main the best traditions of general civil etiquette, even having changed in form, remain alive in their spirit. Ease, naturalness, sense of proportion, politeness, tact, and most importantly, goodwill towards people - these are qualities that will reliably help in any situation. life situations, even when you are not familiar with any small rules of general civil etiquette, of which there are a great many on Earth.

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Tactfulness and sensitivity. The content of these two noble human qualities is attention, deep respect for the inner world of those with whom we communicate, the desire and ability to understand them, to feel what can give them pleasure, joy or, conversely, cause them irritation, annoyance, and resentment.

Tactfulness and sensitivity are also a sense of proportion that should be observed in conversation, in personal and work relationships, the ability to sense the boundary beyond which, as a result of our words and actions, a person experiences undeserved offense, grief, and sometimes pain. A tactful person always takes into account specific circumstances: differences in age, gender, social status, place of conversation, presence or absence of strangers.

Tactfulness and sensitivity also imply the ability to quickly and accurately determine the reaction of interlocutors to our statements, actions and, in necessary cases, self-critically, without a sense of false shame, apologize for the mistake made. This will not only not damage your dignity, but, on the contrary, will strengthen it in the opinion of thinking people, showing them your extremely valuable human trait - modesty

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(Based on the sitepsycholines. people. ru

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Everyone knows the expressions: “cold politeness,” “icy politeness,” “contemptuous politeness,” in which epithets added to this wonderful human quality not only kill its essence, but turn it into its opposite. However, true politeness can only be benevolent, since it is one of the manifestations of sincere, disinterested benevolence towards all other people with whom a person meets at work, in the house where he lives, in public places.

One of the main elements of politeness is the ability to remember names. The reason most people don't remember names is because they don't want to take the time to imprint those names indelibly in their memory. They make excuses for themselves that they are too busy.

Perhaps people would not be so eager to assure others that they are busy if they knew that one of the simplest and most effective ways to win the favor of others is to remember their names and instill in them a sense of their own importance.

Be polite!

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(Based on the sitepsycholines. people. ru)

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Nothing is valued as dearly by the people around us as politeness and delicacy. But in life we ​​often have to deal with rudeness, harshness, and disrespect. The reason here is that we underestimate the culture of human behavior, his manners.

Manners are a way of holding oneself, an external form of behavior, expressions used in speech, tone, intonation, gestures and even facial expressions. In society, modesty and restraint, and the ability to control one’s actions are considered good manners. Bad manners are considered to be swagger in gestures and behavior, sloppiness in clothing, rudeness manifested in disregard for other people's interests, in the shameless imposition of one's will and desires on other people, in the inability to restrain one's irritation, in tactlessness, foul language, and the use of humiliating nicknames. .

Delicacy is a prerequisite for cultural communication. Delicacy should not be excessive or turn into flattery. There is no need to try hard to hide the fact that you are seeing, listening to, tasting something for the first time, fearing that otherwise you will be considered ignorant. In a word, your manners will speak about you.

(147 words) (From Internet materials)

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The insults that we inflict on each other in our relationships are not directly explained by our evil will. People do not harm each other due to some special cruelty or atrocity. The immediate cause of offending others is often the lack of necessary communication experience, the inability to meet others halfway, and excessive self-indulgence.

After a person has caused an offense, he can come to his senses, but most often this happens very late. The hurtful words have already been spoken. The pain that a person tries to forcibly transfer to his neighbor sooner or later returns to the offender, and often with double force.

And although a person sometimes really does not know what he is doing when he causes harm to those whom he loves most (humiliation of others, the use of violence against them is an expression of a sense of his own weakness), this does not mean that he can feel free from responsibility for his own words and actions with which he inflicted so much insult and evil on his loved ones.

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The word “character” came into Russian from Greek; translated it means “sign, feature.” Depending on the person's existing strong-willed qualities is formed either strong or weak character, therefore, will and character are closely related.

How to develop a strong will and character? These qualities are affirmed in a person when overcoming various obstacles - internal and external. Internal obstacles are created by the person himself - his laziness, timidity, stubbornness, false pride, shyness, passivity, doubts. External ones can be created by other people or difficulties in completing a task.

Where should you start developing a strong will and character? The easiest way is to achieve goals that are not too difficult, and then gradually make them more difficult. This will provide an opportunity to strengthen self-confidence and gain the necessary experience. A very important condition for developing zero strength and strong character is systematic training in overcoming difficulties. If you avoid it Everyday life, then you may find yourself helpless in serious trials. And who wants to appear weak and spineless in the eyes of others?

(151 word) (According to T. Morozova)

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What is the most valuable gift for any person? Of course, this is love and kindness. They always walk side by side, they are like one whole. Love and kindness can be given selflessly, with the best intentions. Simple responsiveness to people already means goodness. Support your friend, help him complete a difficult task, or give him an unexpected gift, even a small one, but from the heart...

Don't forget about those closest to you - your parents! They, no less than others, need our love and kindness, attention and understanding. They are the ones who receive the least pleasant words from us, because most often our love exists as a fact, as something taken for granted. However, parents also have the right to our love and gratitude, trust and help.

Giving love and kindness is easy. You just need to start doing good deeds and not stop. And you won't notice how they will make your life amazing.

(135 words) (According to V. Bessonova)

Methodological development open lesson in Russian (9th grade) “Concise presentation of the text read.”

The purpose of the lesson: generalization of students’ knowledge of writing a concise presentation in accordance with the requirements of the OGE.

Tasks:

1) strengthening the ability to highlight micro-topics and use various text compression techniques;

2) development of coherent oral and writing students;

3) fostering a kind and attentive attitude towards people.

Lesson type: lesson on consolidating the material learned.

Lesson equipment: There are phrases scattered on the board that should form proverbs (Learn good - bad things will not come to mind. Errors that are not corrected are real mistakes. To be called a man is easy, to be a man is more difficult.) On the other side of the board are written the words:

POLITENESS

DELICACY

Each student has handouts on the table: a text for work and a poem by V. Fedorov “Blind”.

Nothing is valued as dearly by the people around us as politeness and delicacy. But in life we ​​often have to deal with rudeness, harshness, and disrespect. The reason here is that we underestimate the culture of human behavior, his manners.

Manners are a way of holding oneself, an external form of behavior, expressions used in speech, tone, intonation, gestures and even facial expressions. In society, modesty and restraint, the ability to control one’s actions, and communicate carefully and tactfully with other people are considered good manners. Bad manners are considered to be swagger in gestures and behavior, sloppiness in clothing, rudeness manifested in disregard for other people's interests and requests, in the shameless imposition of one's will and desires on other people, in the inability to restrain one's irritation, in tactlessness, foul language, the use of derogatory nicknames, nicknames

Delicacy is a prerequisite for cultural communication. Delicacy should not be excessive or turn into flattery. There is no need to try hard to hide the fact that you are seeing, listening to, tasting something for the first time, fearing that otherwise you will be considered ignorant.

In a word, your manners will speak about you.

(156 words) (From Internet materials)

Not seeing people in front of me,

Without noticing the benches in the park,

A blind man is walking down the street

Touching the ground with a shelf.

He'll be pushed

They will pass forward

And immediately, in a hurry to intervene,

Some sighted person will call

Be sensitive

Quiet in human hum:

Push... It's nothing...

I will know

What's nearby are people.

During the classes

1.Organizing time(Welcome students and guests, communicate the topic and purpose of the lesson).

2. A student prepared in advance reads by heart V. Fedorov’s poem “The Blind”.

3. Conversation with students based on the text of the poem.

What words seemed unclear to you? (hudi - noise, we replace this colloquial word with a stylistically neutral synonym).

About what this poem?

How often can we observe similar situations?

What is the meaning of the title of the poem?

Find the antonym for the word “blind” in the text of the poem. (Sighted)

Why do you think our lesson began with this poem? What will be discussed in the text offered to you?

4.The game "Who's Faster?"

There are phrases scattered on the board that should form floorboards. And in proverbs and sayings, as you know, folk wisdom is presented. Let's try to collect them.

How do you understand the meaning of the statements you collected?

5. Work with text.

(In the notebooks write down the date, type of work: concise presentation)

A) expressive reading text;

b) conversations with students based on the text:

How many paragraphs is the text divided into? (3)

How many microtopics does it contain? (3)

What is a microtheme?

We highlight micro-topics, paying attention to keywords (write micro-topics in a notebook)

What text compression techniques do you know?

What text compression technique can we use in the first paragraph (summarization); in the second paragraph (exception); in the third paragraph (simplification).

6. Editing text (working with handouts).

7. Independent work(writing a concise summary).

8.Summing up, grading with comments.

9. Homework(according to the OGE collections, presentation evaluation table, give yourself the appropriate points).

One of the basic principles of modern life is maintaining normal relationships between people and the desire to avoid conflicts. In turn, respect and attention can only be earned by maintaining politeness and restraint. Therefore, nothing is valued as dearly by the people around us as politeness and delicacy. But in life we ​​often have to deal with rudeness, harshness, and disrespect for the personality of another person. The reason here is that we underestimate the culture of human behavior, his manners.

Manners are a way of holding oneself, the external form of behavior, treatment of other people, expressions used in speech, tone, intonation, gait, gestures and even facial expressions characteristic of a person. Manners relate to the culture of human behavior and are regulated by etiquette.

In society, good manners are considered to be a person’s modesty and restraint, the ability to control one’s actions, and to communicate carefully and tactfully with other people. Bad manners are considered to be the habit of speaking loudly, without hesitation in expressions, swagger in gestures and behavior, sloppiness in clothing, rudeness, manifested in outright hostility towards others, in disregard for other people's interests and requests, in the shameless imposition of one's will and desires on other people, in the inability to restrain one’s irritation, in deliberately insulting the dignity of people around him, in tactlessness, foul language, and the use of humiliating nicknames.

The same can be said about the etiquette of modern young man. The etiquette of a modern young man includes polite treatment of a woman, respectful attitude towards elders, forms of address and greeting, rules of conversation, behavior at the table. In general, etiquette in a civilized society coincides with the general requirements of politeness, which are based on the principles of humanism.

Delicacy is a prerequisite for communication. Delicacy should not be excessive, turn into flattery, or lead to unjustified praise of what is seen or heard. There is no need to try hard to hide the fact that you are seeing, listening to, tasting something for the first time, fearing that otherwise you will be considered ignorant.

Tact and sensitivity in a modern young man also means a sense of proportion that should be observed in conversation, in personal and work relationships, the ability to sense the boundary beyond which, as a result of our words and actions, a person experiences undeserved offense, grief, and sometimes pain. A tactful person always takes into account specific circumstances: differences in age, gender, social status, place of conversation, presence or absence of strangers.

Respect for others is a prerequisite for tact, even between good comrades. You've probably encountered a situation where at a meeting someone casually throws out "nonsense", "nonsense", etc. during the speeches of his comrades. This behavior often becomes the reason that when he himself begins to speak out, even his sound judgments are met with coldness by the audience. Self-respect without respect for others inevitably degenerates into conceit, conceit, and arrogance. “A man who talks only about himself thinks only about himself,” says D. Carnegie. “And a man who thinks only about himself is hopelessly uncultured. He is uncultured, no matter how highly educated he may be.”

The next quality mandatory for a cultured young man is modesty. A modest person never strives to show himself better, more capable, smarter than others, does not emphasize his superiority, his qualities, does not demand any privileges, special amenities, or services for himself.

At the same time, modesty should not be associated with timidity or shyness. These are completely different categories. Very often, modest people turn out to be much firmer and more active in critical circumstances, but it is known that it is impossible to convince them that they are right by arguing.

harshness, disrespect for the personality of another person. The reason here is that we underestimate the culture of a person’s behavior, his manners. Manners are a way of holding oneself, the external form of behavior, treatment of other people, expressions used in speech, tone, intonation, characteristic gait, gestures and even facial expressions. In society, good manners are considered to be a person’s modesty and restraint, the ability to control one’s actions, and to communicate carefully and tactfully with other people. Bad manners are considered to be the habit of speaking loudly, without hesitation in expressions, swagger in gestures and behavior, sloppiness in clothing, rudeness, manifested in open hostility towards others, in disregard for other people's interests and requests, in the shameless imposition of one's will and desires on other people, in the inability to restrain one’s irritation, in deliberately insulting the dignity of people around him, in tactlessness, foul language, and the use of humiliating nicknames. A prerequisite for communication is delicacy. Delicacy should not be excessive, turn into flattery, or lead to unjustified praise of what is seen or heard. There is no need to try hard to hide the fact that you are seeing, listening to, tasting something for the first time, fearing that otherwise you will be considered ignorant. help write a concise summary of at least 70 words.

Nothing but politeness and delicacy is so highly valued by others. But in life we ​​often have to deal with harshness, rudeness and disrespectful attitude, due to the fact that we underestimate the culture of behavior and manners of a person.

Manners are a necessary external form of behavior and treatment of other people. Society values ​​modesty, restraint, the ability to control one’s actions and actions, and communicate with others. Bad manners are the habit of speaking loudly and obscenely, as well as the habit of behaving cheekily, sloppiness, rudeness, unkindness, dismissive attitude, intrusiveness, irritability, tactlessness and straightforwardness. The main thing in communication is delicacy, which does not turn into flattery, because delicacy does not tolerate pretense.