In this article, I will tell you why men leave women (or can leave) and how to avoid it ...

Believe it or not, but I really want there to be more long-lasting, happy, harmonious unions, a tandem (relationship) between a man and a woman. To avoid or less = divorces, betrayals, single mothers, quarrels, scandals, etc. garbage = I want more full-fledged families, more happy couples, in general, more worthy men / women and that everything is fine for everyone.

I am sure that in this article you will find a lot of useful, priceless, unique information for yourself, because I always try to give just such information for nothing (for free).

But! The most important thing is how you will use the acquired knowledge and whether you will use it at all, because just reading, studying and knowing is not enough. You need to apply knowledge in practice in life!

I’ll say it right away: really worthy high-ranking women = men don’t leave.

Worthy high-ranking women know how and are able to "keep" their own worthy men. I emphasize, men (and not boys, guys, teenagers, other women with eggs between their legs). Although, in fact, they don’t hold them in any way - men themselves want to be with them 🙂 that’s what level it is ...

I'm telling you this so that you, my dear, understand. The main reason why a man left you (or can leave you) is that you are not suitable for him in some way, i.e. you do not satisfy him with something, do not satisfy according to some criteria. Natural selection is at work (the fittest young ladies win), so everything is logical. I hope you understand me...

CONCLUSION: we can already conclude for ourselves that you, dear, definitely need to upgrade yourself to the level of a high-ranking woman! You need to work on yourself. Plow. Works. Daily.

Of course, if you want, firstly, a WORTHY HIGH-RANKING MAN, secondly, that this man himself wants to be with you always, he wants to live with you all his life, and thirdly, if you want long-lasting, happy , harmonious relationship with this man. If you want all this, you must be an appropriate woman (not like the vast majority of girls / women). Do you understand it? To do this, you need to work on yourself!

You need a man in order to MINIMIZE THE RISKS IN LIFE. And this, if you are not in the know, is your main task in terms of choosing a partner.

And mother's snot. A man, a girl with balls between her legs. Boy. Boy. Teenager. Etc. etc. = these are huge risks for you, nothing good will come of them. I give you 100% guarantee. Need a man!

And only a worthy high-ranking man. Here's an article for you - "What a woman appreciates in a man." Learn it. There I tell what a worthy high-ranking man is. The one you need!

But! I pay attention right away. To be with such a worthy man = you yourself must be a worthy woman. For each creature has a pair and they receive what they themselves are. Nothing else. That's why, at the very beginning - I said (gave advice) to upgrade yourself to the level of a high-ranking woman.

No. 2. Open male needs (you don’t close them, i.e. you don’t work on relationships with your man)

The vast majority of girls / women do not know all men's needs.

Almost everyone seems to know that a man needs to be satisfied (s * ks), but few people know that this needs to be done very high quality (100%) and regularly (constantly) in a relationship.

Over time (with the course of development of relations) - it becomes more and more noticeable. If at first everything is OK, although this is not a fact, but let's say if at first everything is cool, good, then over time the same s * ks loses its colors. And s * ks is no longer so high quality. Not 100%, not as often as before, etc.

These are serious things, because sex is one of the most important tools for binding a man to himself forever. S * ks should be constantly, throughout life, a joint relationship.

Without quality regular sex, everything is possible. Everything. Cheating, quarrels, scandals, maybe he will leave and go to his mistress, who will give him what you cannot / do not want. Understand?

We, men, have 7 needs, about which most women - and do not know, as a result - the needs are open, hence the ensuing consequences. Threw. Gone. Changed, etc.

Most girls / women do not know how to behave with a man, what a man needs, it should be important. How to behave, what to give, when to give, how to give, how much to give, etc. etc. as a result, the very consequences: betrayal, quarrels, misunderstandings, breakups, etc.

In short, here they are (all male needs):

• 1) Quality regular sex
• 2) 100% fidelity (devotion) to a man
• 3) Support. Care. Weasel. Tenderness. Faith. Inspiration. (femininity is capable of all this)
• 4) Attention to a man
• 5) The value of a man
• 6) The function of motherhood
• 7) Hostess function
• 8) and all that he lacks (is lacking). You already know better what is there and how. You must feel it, know it, see it. But! At a minimum (without fail), qualitatively and regularly close those 1-7 needs.

• Reason 2. Monotony, routine, routine
• Reason 4. Frequent quarrels
• Reason 5. Long separation
• Reason 6. You act like a mother, not a wife
• Reason 7. Constant jealousy

2.1. (addition) BALANCE IN RELATIONSHIPS IS IMPORTANT! Woman, do not play with one goal = otherwise you will be thrown ...

Success in relationships in many respects (I would say, first of all) also depends on how partners evaluate each other! How will your status be relative to each other.

In short, you are a woman = you should not invest a lot of resources in a man (time, money, strength, energy, etc.), in other words, do a lot of things for him / for him, if this man of yours = really nothing in you does not invest. This is called a one-sided game (imbalance of relations).

Relationship imbalance - puts an end to these relationships. 100% guarantee to you. Therefore, the game (relationship) should take place in two gates: you somehow invest in him (do something) = he somehow invests in you (did something) = and so on ad infinitum. There must be uniformity. Balance. 50/50.

In no case should you invest and invest FREE OF CHARGE = otherwise your significance (value) for a man is lost and over time = everything, he does not appreciate you, does not respect you, actually wipes his feet on you, etc., in general , it's game over. So think...

I talked about this in more detail in the main article: “Do not play with one goal”.

Number 3. You don't suit him (you don't suit each other)

For a relationship, it is extremely important how well you fit each other. You must have common ground. Without points of contact = no relationship is possible in principle.

Now it’s about whether you have common values, interests, hobbies, whether your thinking, worldviews in life are similar, etc. whether you are approximately equal to each other, or you are stupid, and he is smart or vice versa, or she is healthy / and you are not and only beer, or do you have one worldview, values, are interesting, etc. in life - but she has a completely different, etc. etc. = This is extremely important.

I don't go into details - because it is clear (at least it should be clear to everyone). If you are completely different = what kind of relationship can there be? Well, it’s impossible (impossible) to get along when you have different values, different interests, you are different, incl. your characteristics, such as intelligence, IQ, thinking, worldviews in life, etc. etc. if you do not suit each other = game over. Sooner or later, there will be a gap. End. At first, it may not even be noticeable, because. everything seems to suit everyone (emotions, euphoria, high, sex there, etc.) - but with the development of relations = you understand that this is not your woman - that she doesn’t suit you somehow at all, you don’t feel her native.

You are important here. Like a personality. Who are you. What are you. What are your worldviews in life, views, interests, hobbies, do you have a passion (hobbies), what do you do, how do you live, what are you, are you smart, your intellect, your upbringing, IQ (social, emotional, logical), thinking, behavior, etc. etc. if you are a “TP”, and in general, you are not interested in anything, there is nothing to talk about, discuss, you lead a passive lifestyle, in general, about nothing and stupidly “empty” = you have problems. Solve them!

But, if you don’t have any problems, it may be that you are just different and you just simply don’t suit this man (well, you don’t suit him, you don’t suit him, he doesn’t feel the blood inside himself, he doesn’t feel that you are his the same one, it's all at the level of feelings, understand, therefore, game over).

You understand, if you do not have common values, interests, hobbies, etc. = it is impossible to get along and be together. This is an extremely important point. Points of contact. This point is important. that over time the partners get to know each other more and more. This allows you to start, in a sense - to be friends. Without friendship in the future (in a relationship) = there will be no relationship. At first, it drives s * ks and other needs there, but without this point (points of contact) = further relations are impossible !!! When there is nothing to catch / do together = what kind of relationship / friendship is there? …

No. 4. He doesn't love you...

At first, everyone has love, euphoria, high, passions, emotions and all things ... but, over time, all this subsides (emotions subside) and it may turn out that there are no feelings as such. Emptiness.

If he really doesn't love you = there's nothing you can do about it.

This point, in many respects, is connected with point number 3 (how well you suit each other), and how good you are - as a woman (how good you are as a woman and how well you interact with a man, in other words: loves / does not like = largely depends on you yourself).

If everything is OK (you suit each other well, and you are a worthy high-ranking woman, you behave correctly, you give everything to your man, in the right amount and regularly, etc., etc., in general, you interact well with a man) = this reason is, well, very unlikely.

In conclusion, throughout the article (in brief):

1) The man didn’t walk up (you made the wrong choice of partner) (I talked about this in this article)

• 1) No or lack of quality regular sex
• 2) There is no 100% fidelity (devotion) to a man (you are not faithful, not faithful)
• 3) No or lack of: support, care, affection, tenderness, faith, inspiration (no femininity)
• 4) No or lack of attention to a man
• 5) No or lack of value of a man
• 6) No or lack of motherhood in you
• 7) No or lack of hostess function in you

3) You are not suitable for him (you are not suitable for each other) (I talked about this in this article)

4) He does not love you (I talked about this in this article)

• Reason 1. You act like a man (you have no femininity)
• Reason 2. Monotony, routine, ordinariness in relationships
• Reason 3. You have ceased to constantly monitor yourself "hammered the bolt."
• Reason 4. Frequent quarrels in relationships
• Reason 5. Long separation in a relationship
• Reason 6. You act like a mother in a relationship, not a wife
• Reason 7. Constant jealousy in a relationship

An additional article, I recommend that you study it: “How to keep a man next to you forever“. I'm sure now you know a lot of things, in particular (on our topic): why a man left / cheated on you (or may do so in the future). Take the information into service, use the knowledge in practice (in life) and there are great chances for the prosperity of a long-term and happy relationship. That's all. Good luck!

Regards, administrator.

There are plenty of reasons why a husband leaves his wife. They can be divided into two capacious categories: 1) a more profitable option loomed in the future and 2) living together became unbearable. Everything is clear with the first, but why the second happens, let's take a closer look. So, why do men leave women, reasons and reasons?

First: ceased to be interesting

At the same time, it doesn’t even matter in what: in sex, appearance, conversations or in raising children. A man is selfish: he actually needs an ideal - and so that she shines with beauty, and is good in bed, and does not climb into her pocket for a word, and has a high IQ. Of course, if a partner is needed only for a couple of nights, then all these requirements do not matter, but if the intentions are serious with a bias towards a long-term relationship, of course, they outweigh.

However, on the other hand, men avoid too smart. This is where the paradox lies: in front of others they want to shine with the mind of their wife, but they themselves do not want to recognize it, since the wife should not be smarter than her husband. Otherwise, he will develop an inferiority complex. But he doesn’t need a stupid one either, because apart from glossy magazines and serials, she will not be interested in anything. In general, men are a continuous walking contradiction.

Second: the difference in characters

Even if a woman suits her man in all respects (appearance, mind, housekeeping and other components are simply impeccable), this does not guarantee that he will stay with her forever.

For example, there may be a discrepancy in terms of characters: humorous, but not to his taste, cooks deliciously, but not according to his preferences, behaves well in bed, but suggests a suspicious thought of infidelity. Hence - scandals, tantrums, discontent over trifles. It is impossible to reach a compromise, because no one agrees to concessions. There is only one way out - to leave.

Third: female incontinence

In this case, the fault lies entirely with the lady: not every spouse can stand it if the companion begins to behave inappropriately in a public place, talk about his personal aspects of life to outsiders or indecently joke at a party. In these and similar situations, the woman casts a shadow on the man. Therefore, he simply does not see the point of living with one that can throw out something inappropriate at any moment. Here he goes.

Fourth: there were many sex partners before him

It is unpleasant when, after a year or two of living together, the husband finds out that his missus, it turns out, was unfaithful. That is, she was looking for a spouse "through the bed." In such a situation, the question arises: what is he then in a row?

Therefore, before changing applicants for a hand and heart like gloves, you need to think: what to do later, after 35, when you are stale and not so good? Yes, and less likely to find a great man. Whereas, unfortunately, no one will forget about the turbulent past of the lady, because every dog ​​in the village or city already knows about it.

The husband does not intend to be in limbo, steadfastly withstanding flirting with his wife or unambiguous hints from others. The husband wants to be among the first, but not in the fifties.

Fifth: a man-vent

Naturally, it is normal to share the events that happened during the day or exciting issues. But! Everything must be in moderation. If, for example, a wife will load her husband from morning to evening with the fact that she successfully chose her hundredth pair of shoes and bought them at a discount on a sale or found great pads on a 3% discount card, then this will someday cause him a nervous tic. with the desire to escape as soon as possible.

Sixth: bad appearance

Even if a representative of the strong half of humanity married a gorgeous blonde with an aspen waist and full breasts, this still does not save her from the risk of being abandoned in a few years. After all, the chest sags, gray hair covers, and the waist grows fat. And all because of the natural age-related changes that you can’t stop, but only slightly slow down or disguise. So, in order to remain a married woman, you need to take care of yourself - constantly, vigilantly and efficiently.

Seventh: purse man

A banal situation, when a spouse pulls money from her man, paying for it with night sex, can end in failure - breakup and departure. After all, he can buy entertainment in bed for more modest amounts than he spends on the maintenance of his missus. Therefore, if there is no love, tenderness and respect, the chance to get into the ranks of singles is incredibly high - just like being left without fashionable trinkets and fur coats.

Eighth: already unbearable to marry

Why does a man leave a woman for no reason? Sometimes, it just seems like there is no reason. The guy will definitely quit if he notices that the girl is seriously focused on marriage and is even ready to get pregnant for this. He will instinctively have a desire to make his legs as soon as possible, having escaped from the ringing. Marriage by flight usually does not bring happiness and does not last long. Therefore, you should not force events, otherwise everything will turn into the disappearance of the applicant for the role of the groom.

Ninth: female infidelity

Men will forgive their spouses everything except infidelity. This is tantamount to the ruin of a family, spitting in the face, mockery on the sly. And no excuses will save - only a divorce by mutual agreement.

Tenth: high earnings

For some representatives of the strong half, it is unacceptable for a woman to receive more than them. This humiliates, demonstrates male failure, emphasizes that she is smarter, better, more professional. Yes, and reproaches in his direction about how bad and inept he is, can forever knock him out of the family nest.

Justin Shanfarber is a renowned marriage counselor with many years of experience working with both men and women who are unhappy in marriage.

The expert claims that despite the different problems each of us has, if a woman leaves a man, this often happens for the same reason.

A woman who decides to leave a man experiences far from the most pleasant feelings. But still, she does it, despite her heart breaking in her chest and, having gathered all her will into a fist. Moreover, women leave men with whom they have common children and property. The reason for this is always the same circumstance, and it is important that the representatives of the stronger sex realize what exactly is the matter.

The woman leaves when the man is no longer around

You should not take this phrase literally, nearby - it means not just presence, but full participation in the life of a companion. Men devote their free time to anything - meeting with friends, fishing, watching TV and other things. This does not mean at all that such husbands are bad, because they get along with children, have a neat appearance and support the family as best they can. But they are not interested in the life of their wives, although from the outside everything looks good.

Many of Justin's clients said that they do not receive emotional support from their husbands at all, even when they are upset and cry defiantly. Of course, one should not judge anyone for their behavior in a given situation, but it is necessary to consider important things that happen every day with many couples. You can be indignant and indignant, this is your right, but the fact remains.

A wife is not the property of her husband and is not obliged to love him. Love must be earned and this process is long. Earn just like money - work hard, tirelessly day in and day out. Men need to learn how to win over women not with banknotes, but with attention so that they do not feel indifference and know that they will always receive support from their husband.

Men, learn to listen to your wives, not just nod your head when she tells you something. Do not reassure them with the words "everything will be fine", do not take on the role of the devil's advocate. Take part in the conversation, delve into the essence, do not keep extraneous thoughts in your head when she emotionally talks about something. Look her straight in the eyes, so it will be comfortable for both of you.

Learn to feel your wives. They want to feel real passion for them. And any marriage will be alive as long as there is passion in it. If the passion subsided - find the reason. And there is no need to justify difficult times, we have never lived and will not live in peace.

Try to get to know your wives better. Believe me, even after several years of marriage, there is something in her that you have not yet experienced. Pay attention to your own feelings - how you feel when you touch her hand or when you hug her. How does your body react? Share your experiences with her. Be aware. But as practice shows, most men consider this a waste of time.

Give a woman 5 minutes a day

Just five minutes a day is enough for a marriage not to fall apart. During this time, you do not need to make attempts to cook some kind of original dinner, you just need to devote these five minutes to your wife, completely and without a trace.

If you try to live like this, believe me, a lot will change. You may even be able to experience a new taste of life, and you will not want to stop.

P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness - together we change the world! © econet

Oh, how bad we are, if you believe you, dear women. After all, you have to be the last scoundrel to leave one of you. Do you consider it normal to change men like gloves, finding a hundred signs of imperfection. We will try to highlight the top 10 reasons why we say goodbye to you.

Of course, you can simplify the problem and say that, they say, men want the perfect woman who would cook for them, clean, fully satisfy in bed and fulfill all sorts of desires, besides being moderately smart and modest. But it's not. In most cases, the woman bears at least half the responsibility for breaking up the relationship. So we leave when...

1. The woman has become uninteresting

No matter what: in conversations or in sex. A man is always looking for, if not an ideal, then at least one with whom it is interesting to talk and it is pleasant in bed. Of course, those men who are looking for a woman at one time are not very interested in her IQ level. But if we are talking about long-term relationships, then here we want to see moderately smart ladies around us.

A woman should not be smarter than a man, as he will feel an inferiority complex. But he doesn’t need a stupid one, who, apart from TV shows and women’s magazines, is not interested in anything.

Conclusion - a woman should be an actress in order to show herself the way a man wants to see her.

Sexually, you should also be moderately liberated. Excess stiffness will force a man to look for someone on the side, and excessive activity will make you wonder if a good half of the city is familiar with his wife's bed talents?

2. Did not agree on the characters

It seems to everyone that you are arranging a man, but every now and then there are scandals over trifles. You cannot find a compromise; you do not make concessions. There is only one way out - separation. A man by nature loves to be a leader, and therefore wants his woman to yield to him in conflict situations. Then the choice is hers - if the current partner is dear, she will have to give in, but there is no trial.

In any case, if you do not have an ideal figure and a subtle mind, you should not hope that a man is ready for anything for you. It will be much easier for him to find an alternative than for you. Such is our demographic situation.

3. A woman is unrestrained

It is unlikely that any man wants to blush for his companion, if in a public place she suddenly begins to behave inappropriately, casting a shadow on him. Yes, and to live with such an unpredictable woman, who at any moment can do something stupid or something like that, there is not much point. Conclusion - learn to control yourself.

4. In the past, a woman led a dissolute lifestyle

Women's "Don Juanism" is called an impartial word, and the attitude towards it in society is negative. Therefore, before rapidly changing partners in your youth, think about what you will do after 30 years, when it is already more difficult to find a good man, and every dog ​​in the city knows about your turbulent past, as they say.

A man wants to be, if not the first, then certainly not the 51st. And he definitely does not want all his acquaintances to have some experience with his woman. Conclusion - think about the future from the moment of puberty. Unless, of course, you want to spend your whole life alone. Youth is not eternal.

5. A woman uses a man as an outlet.

He talks about his problems, worries, actions all day long. Of course, it is necessary to share exciting issues and events, but again, there should be a measure in everything.

When you call a young man in the middle of the night and say that you love him very much and are ready to do anything for him, then over time it becomes annoying. And if you tell yourself over and over again that you bought your 15th pair of shoes on sale and earned a discount card for three percent by buying pads, shampoos and cosmetics, then you will simply get a man, and the next time you call, he will begin to have a nervous tic.

Conclusion - it should be understood that there is a significant difference between a girlfriend and a man. It is she who can discuss everything in the world with you and enjoy such conversations. But a man will certainly look for a calmer and quieter woman.

6. The woman stopped caring for herself

Yes, appearance does not play a big role in a relationship, however, it cannot be said that a man does not pay attention to it. And if he met a graceful blonde with an aspen waist and elastic breasts, and after two years of marriage she turned into something shapeless, with sagging charms and huge buttocks, from a purely aesthetic point of view, a man will lose interest in her.

Yes, there are men who like fat women. But they are looking for them in the first place. Conclusion - take care of yourself. Your appearance is in your hands.

7. A woman clearly uses a man as a wallet

We love taking care of women. In addition, we are really happy to take you to a restaurant, buy flowers and expensive jewelry, ride on a yacht and take you to a resort. For this we want to get a little: love and sex. I would like to emphasize the first, since we can buy sex for much more modest money.

If a woman constantly pulls money from a man, rewarding him with evening sex, but at the same time he does not see or feel love, sooner or later he will get tired of it and you will be left without a new fur coat and another necklace.

Conclusion - moderate your ardor. Or, if you want to take more money from a man, show that you love him. At least do not say directly that you want that blouse or ring over there. After all, you can just hint that a diamond necklace and a fox fur coat are in fashion this winter. And you don't want your husband's business partners to think that he doesn't care about his wife.

8. A woman is too open about her desire to get married.

For some, things go so far that for the sake of marriage they are ready to become pregnant. If a man wants to marry you, you will feel it. But if at this stage he is not ready for this, then it is useless to force events, only “scare him away”.

According to world statistics, women initiate divorce in two-thirds of cases. If a man can leave a family because of a lack of intimacy, a serious new romantic interest, or a lack of feeling that his needs are no longer a priority for his wife, then a woman decides to leave her husband for various reasons. In this publication, we list five main aspects.

Lack of emotional connection

Men feel connected to their wives mainly through intimate sexual intimacy. Women are arranged differently, and in the first place in marital relations, they put an emotional connection. And only after achieving emotional contact with a partner, the beautiful half of humanity has a desire for sex. Too often, wives seek companionship outside of their own marriage simply because they lack emotional intimacy with their husbands. As you know, beautiful ladies love with their ears. The most successful husbands are well aware of this.

Disagreements over financial matters

It may seem to many that a woman will be able to decide on a divorce due to the fact that her husband is not able to feed his family. However, this is not quite true. Most often, financial disagreements occur due to the different expectations of the spouses. In other words, if a wife is willing to live for modest needs, she will not leave her husband. But if the husband, without the knowledge of the second half, begins to take on large financial risks, get into debt or freely spend the general budget, the woman will begin to think about breaking up. To avoid divorce, spouses need to discuss financial management at a round table. In the event that a consensus can be reached, the marriage will be saved.

The husband is rarely at home and does not take care of the family

Of course, if a man is the main breadwinner of the family, he is forced to spend more time on work. A wise woman understands this very well. However, sometimes the situation can become simply catastrophic. If every day the husband returns home almost after midnight, goes on frequent and long business trips, the wife begins to be torn apart by conflicting doubts. But does the spouse love his family so much, has he got another woman and why can’t he find a way to earn money that would give him the right to spend more time with the household? Well, children who do not receive enough paternal attention and upbringing can grow up offended at all.

Failure to resolve conflict

Let us agree that there are no two people in the world who would never quarrel and would always and in everything agree with each other. However, avoiding corners, rough edges and problems, couples in family relationships go in a vicious circle. It will not help if you accept each other's differences, come to terms with them and fully adapt. You should not be like an ostrich and, at the slightest danger, hide your head in the sand. If one of the partners refuses to talk about problems, refuses to notice them, he puts the marriage in an impasse. According to a study by Michigan State University, many marriages fail precisely because husbands refuse to engage in constructive dialogue. You need to listen to your spouse, find out her aspirations and accept her feelings. A marriage that is like a one-way street will never be successful. The best way to resolve a conflict situation is to remain cool-headed, but move towards your partner.

Constant monitoring or abusive behavior

Any healthy and fulfilling relationship, in addition to the usual pronoun "we", implies the words "I" and "you". This means that each spouse should have their own personal space.
A marriage where partners with different interests seek and eventually find common ground is much more likely to last. People who love each other must trust their soulmate. Total control will not lead to anything good. So, for example, women least of all like to exist as if behind glass, under the gaze of their spouse. They want to have time to meet with old friends or go to visit their mother. In the event that they are deprived of all this, the wives feel deeply unhappy. Isolation seems like a living hell for them. More terrible than this can only be physical and emotional abuse, which is completely unacceptable.

Conclusion

Remember the saying, the famous saying that if the wife is happy, then the family is also happy. The easiest way to give your spouse happiness is to make the family nest a safe and comfortable place. Be sure to talk to her and find out her innermost desires. Just do it not for show, just establish an emotional connection with your woman. Soon you will be surprised to see how much your relationship will improve.