Our memory is amazing. She chooses from all the information provided to her by life, not what her owner wants, but what she herself considers necessary. Therefore, we do not remember our mobile phone number and cannot forget the husband’s betrayal of his wife. Although, I would like the opposite.

Most likely, this article is being read by a woman whose husband has already “gone to the left”, who already herself roughly guesses what mistakes she made. However, repetition is the mother of learning.

Many people are better at remembering facts laid out in a table or in a list. Write on a piece of paper a list of your mistakes in order to remember and not repeat them again.

The first and most important mistake in family life is jealousy.

It’s a paradox, but it’s mostly men who are wildly jealous of their wives.

As always, let's compare a husband with a dog. One unfortunate dog sits on a chain all his life, dreams of freedom. He "blows away" when the chain suddenly breaks. He runs in circles, his tail lifted, knocking everything in his path, biting everyone in a row. The same is done by a man on a business trip who "sits on a short leash" at home.

The stray Tuzik, who is not held by anyone and who is only allowed to guard the house, will never run away from this courtyard! He is betrayed in body and soul and, on the contrary, is afraid that the gate will not be opened for him if he runs out into the street for a short time.

Jealousy is your leash. It is impossible not to be jealous at all. But the leash is different. One is a chain with a sharp collar. The other is a delicious stew in a bowl and scratch behind the ear.

The second mistake is lack of incentives

You are not jealous, you don’t hold back, but you don’t let you get close either. It's not about sex, it's about the soul. A detached attitude, closeness, lack of affection and care at first excite some men, make them scratch your impenetrable shell, and do things.

Then, over time, they meet a woman with whom it is easy to be loved. And he goes along the path of least resistance. In everything you need to know when to stop. Even in the absence of jealousy. Remember sometimes about a bowl of sugar seeds and "scratching behind the ear."

The woman lost herself

The lady got married, gave birth to her husband two or three children and calmed down. Where is he going now? Alimony is tortured to pay.

This behavior makes a man unhappy. He really cannot leave his family, children (I'm talking about a normal man). But that beautiful nymph, which earlier aroused desire and tenderness in him, turned into a fat, tortured aunt with gnawed nails and a washcloth on her head.

As a result:

1. Man suffers... He loves her in his own way, but DOES NOT WANT. He is not a womanizer, he really feels bad from despair and disappointment.
2. This behavior of a woman makes her unhappy.... They do not love her, they tolerate her, and in the end they cheat on her. Only a fool will not understand this.
3. But children suffer the most in this situation.... They, like a litmus test, determine the color of a family's health and experience bad relationships that they do not understand.

Not the last mistake - not knowing how to forgive

Let's split the topic into two meanings. The ability to forgive in general is a fundamental position of a person. The Bible tells us to forgive, appealing to common sense: we are not all without sin. Today you will forgive, tomorrow they will forgive you. The one who does nothing, etc., is not mistaken.

To forgive means not to keep it under your bosom as an argument for every opportunity. Forgiveness means letting go inside yourself and forgetting.

How to forget your husband's betrayal

Understand the motive

It is not for nothing that the wise saying “To understand is to forgive” has taken root in the society of people. Take small children, for example. Unfortunately, there is no education without punishment. Only one punished kid clenches his fists, harbors resentment and does spite, while the other realizes that he is wrong and himself to blame, still loves the one who teaches him to live.

Why it happens? Because the first unfortunate man does not understand why and why. Nobody explained to him the motive of the ban.

You have been punished. Not on purpose. Not even a husband, but life in his guise. You did something wrong, made some fatal mistakes and now you are getting retribution. Understand the motive, explain it to yourself (you’re not a child) and live on without concealing resentment (you can even thank for the science).

Sometimes women, not trying (or not knowing how) to understand the motives, seek and find the guilty ones around them, putting on their heads the halo of a martyr. Unfortunately, this posture will not help and has never helped to correct the situation. It is even dangerous for subsequent depression.

Dialogue

In a dispute, truth is born. In the dialogue, moments are clarified that can seal a crumbling marriage. However, you must be able to conduct a dialogue correctly:

• Only on the topic! You can jump to another to close the quarrel. For example, offer to go to the sea or talk about the "five" of the son. Never think of the grievances the day before yesterday. Only today!

• Using the phrase "you are always like this" or "you never ..", you kind of program your opponent for the future. Better to avoid them.
• Have a sensitive topic only on the "sober head" in the literal and figurative sense. If emotions suddenly go off scale and you want to scream, throw something at him, slow down and leave the room. It definitely won't help.
• Discuss the topic without epithets and insults neither his nor his mistress. Your neutral position will pierce his vanity much faster than crying and crying.
• Silence can be used as punishment but within reasonable limits. One must not miss the moment of the opportunity for a productive dialogue.

Remember the best sides of a spouse

Happy is the woman who loves herself. Do you want to be happy? Don't make yourself unhappy. Love! Look at him a little from the side, at least through the eyes of the woman with whom he cheated on you.

Even after 30 years of marriage, women still like him. Your eye is simply "blurry". What we have - we do not store, having lost we cry. Love it again. Yes, of course, you already love him so, but ... not as much as before, not as he would like. Try to diversify your being a little so that he, looking at you, wipes the dust from his glasses.

How to live on

After the betrayal of the husband, however, like the wife, there are three possible scenarios for the development of events:

1. Divorce... For some reason, any psychologist claims that this is the worst option. Why? It is necessary to preserve the family by any means, if this family is not a mistake. If everyone feels bad about it, why keep it?
2. Live as if nothing happened... Agree that sometimes betrayal of the soul is much more dangerous than betrayal of the body. If the husband is simply drawn to the "strawberry", and the wife turns out to be a wise woman, everything will return to its former course. In this case, adultery can be repeated constantly. But betrayal will not be considered either a husband or a wife.
3. Cheating, like stress, like repression from the outside, like a family crisis... Both will come out of it, hugging tightly, rallying. Shaking the dust off the relationship, celebrate a new honeymoon.

In each case, the problem is solved differently. It is difficult to prescribe recipes that are suitable for every family.

Are you sure your family should definitely be reanimated? Calmly analyze your attitude towards her:

• want to be like everyone else; inferior, but his own;
• certainly return in order to take revenge and abandon herself;
• are afraid of loneliness, material instability;
• you realized that you love him.

It is clear that only the last answer is worthy of struggle and existence. Only in this case do we proceed as follows.

1. We put ourselves in order, we lose weight, we do our hair and we cook deliciously.
2. We do not follow in any way, do not peep, sniff or read SMS on his phone. Remember, he who seeks will find.
3. We don't make scandals.
4. If the relationship still allows, go together to the forest, to the zoo or just to visit.
5. We do not hang ourselves and do not poison ourselves... Not the end of the world, and he is not the best man in the world, believe me.

In any case, no matter what scenario the events unfold, one must live on, loving and respecting oneself. A good Russian proverb says: what God doesn't do, everything is for the best. May it be so!

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The question of how to forget the betrayal of her husband was not initially posed quite correctly: it is impossible to forget completely, you can only forgive. After that, your wound may slowly heal. But you must forgive.

When Cheating Is Forgivable

It is almost impossible to forget the betrayal of a husband, because a woman's pride hurts more and more easily than a man's. But there are many reasons to forgive her husband's betrayal. This can be done in the following cases:

• If your husband hides his relationship from you, while remaining affectionate and loving. Most likely, you are just tired of each other, and love has not gone anywhere. That is why, by the way, after parting, many husbands so want to return to their former half: it is really warm and good with her, and a mistress is so, a petty affair.
• If the betrayal occurred after a family scandal or while intoxicated. Of course, this undermines the trust in a loved one, but we are all not saints and on emotions we can commit the most ugly acts.
• If a man feels guilty, admits and tries to improve relations. Of course, he must earn his forgiveness, but if he realizes that he has committed a terrible offense, you can continue the relationship and be sure that he is unlikely to go left again.

Is it worth parting forever

Very often in women's magazines they write that divorce is the worst option. Yes, parting has always been and remains a difficult thing. In fact, if you feel that you can never forgive your husband's betrayal, it is better to break up. The family will turn into hell: your suspicions and spying on your husband, angry jealousy, etc. will turn you into a paranoid and a real Baba Yaga, and your husband will respond to your aggression with aggression.

It is worth parting even if he is a womanizer and does not repent. This is generally contraindicated to start a family.

It is also worth parting if he does not value you and feels great without you. Do you need such a husband? Do you like this attitude towards yourself?

If you decide to finally and irrevocably part, do it so that he never forgot your departure: tell him nasty things, tell him that you never loved, etc. But this is only appropriate if the husband really deserves it.

How to proceed

Before forgiving betrayal, it is best to leave for a while.

for example, to live separately for a couple of months. During this period, it is better not to disturb your rival, not to try to commit suicide, not to seek solace in drugs or alcohol. No, you can get drunk once and pour out all your emotions into your friend's or sister's waistcoat, but once should be enough.

No, this is the time that you completely and completely devote yourself to your beloved. Time without constant cooking and caring for your husband can be completely and completely devoted to yourself: to remove excess weight, if any, to tidy up the skin, to completely change your appearance. Your task is to cause others (and yourself too) not pity, but surprise: how could such a woman be exchanged for any mistress? There should be no pity for the husband either.

During this time, you can remember what self-love is. Even if someone else is preferred to you, it will not make you worse for sure, which means that you need to love yourself as before, only stronger.

Do not neglect the help of loved ones. You can arrange a bachelorette party with old friends, remember all your boyfriends and stormy youth. Be a bit of a reckless student.

All this time, watch your spouse: how he behaves, whether he makes contact, whether he is trying to restore relations. See if he is in contact with your rival. At this time, it is better not to contact him at all. If he wants to communicate with you or the children, there is a telephone and the Internet.

You also need privacy to cool off. When you are in a state of shock after betraying your husband, you can simply make a lot of mistakes out of emotion. For a couple of months alone with yourself, you can put your feelings in order too.

Intimate talk

This is what you both need after a family tragedy. When you meet, appear before him as a dazzling beauty with an ideal figure, perhaps in an unusual way. Even if he was thinking about parting, when he saw you, he should change his mind.

It is during the conversation that you can understand what prevents your marriage from being perfect. You can have the first conversation after a temporary breakup in neutral territory, for example, in a cafe over a cup of coffee. So you will be less likely to break out into emotions, especially negative ones, and begin to sort things out. Conduct your conversation correctly.

Rule one. We talk only on the topic. We do not recall all the past grievances in a crowd, discussing only a topical issue. And not in the key that "what a brute you are," but specifically about the specific misconduct of a loved one.

The second rule. We do not use our eternal "You are always like this" or "You never ...". Only relevant and today.

Rule three. On the topic of his betrayal, we speak exclusively with a cold head, and in every sense. If emotions get the better of you, it is better to go out into the air for a while.

Rule four. You can not insult not only your husband, but also his passion. This will hit your pride even more than your tantrums. At the same time, it is important to show that you are upset by his misconduct.

Rule four. You can kill him with silence. In reasonable amounts, of course. Whenever there is an opportunity to have a constructive and reasonable dialogue, do not miss it.

During the conversation, try to get him out of what he lacked in your relationship and what exactly he was looking for on the side. Be sure to use this information when further working on yourself and your relationship.

In general, if you discuss any problems and do not hesitate, then many family tragedies can be avoided. This should be done not only after infidelity, but throughout your family life.

Think about the best in your husband.

This is necessary in order to appreciate it. Look at him through the eyes of the woman who was so carried away by him that she became his mistress. Hard? Then just from the outside. For many years of relationship, you probably have a blurry eye, but he is still interesting to the opposite sex. Try to fall in love with him again. No, you probably still love him, but not as much as he would like. And a man always wants passions, thrills and new sensations.

Diversify your family life and try to constantly change something and come up with something new. Always be a new woman for him. You don't even have to delight him with culinary delights, but just walk in front of him in luxurious underwear and stockings ... In the meantime, just remember why you fell in love with him, what he is good for and how much good you have experienced together.

You can try to thank him. Yes, not just, but in writing. Try to write down 100 reasons why you are grateful to your husband on paper. Now it will be very difficult, but if you do it, you will understand that the best in him will neutralize the terrible act.

Understand the motive of his betrayal.

To understand is again to forgive. Do not look for guilt around you and think about what exactly you did wrong. This is what pushed the faithful to the march to the left. He could tell you something, but hesitates to talk about something. You don't need to delve too deeply into yourself, but there are problems in the family that are obvious.

Don't put on a martyr's halo after what happened. This is unlikely to help bring your husband back, but it can lead you to depression. This is not very effective and is unlikely to help correct the situation and your mistakes.

What else can be done

There are many ways to forgive cheating. Here are just a few simple tips.

Realize that your husband is a man. Their sexual behavior is different from that of women. They are somewhat more primitive and simpler, so some of them give in to the call of instinct. And the male instinct is to take possession of the maximum number of women in order to pass on their genes to them. In ancient times, this helped the procreation and survival of the tribe. Many centuries have passed, but instincts have not gone anywhere.

Realize that your situation is not unique. Do not be offended by fate. Most families have experienced treason. Moreover, many wives managed to cope with this and turn the situation in their favor. Now your task is to change the relationship for the better.

Try to understand the fact that all trials provide an opportunity to change everything for the better. Now you know what does not suit your loved one, which means that you can fix everything.

Change your surroundings. This is the only thing that can perfectly ventilate your head and forget all the accumulated negativity. Best of all, they will help you forget about changing a place where you have never been before. You can try the most extreme and crazy tours, hiking in unfamiliar places, where mutual help is needed more than anywhere else. This is not only a novelty, but also an opportunity to see your soul mate in an unusual role. New impressions will help to erase from memory a little everything that happened. If there is no way to go on such a trip, you can arrange an unusual date, for example, on the roof. Another good option is weekend tours.

Please be patient. You cannot forgive him right away. This will take from several months to one year. Try never to remind your husband of his wrongdoing. Be prepared for the fact that your husband will try to improve and become good. Sometimes, after betrayal, the relationship of the spouses changes for the better.

See a family counselor. If you find it difficult to build relationships after infidelity, a psychologist will definitely help you. Another good option is family trainings. There you will meet families who have the same problems - this is a great opportunity to learn from their experience.

Even if you cannot forget the betrayal of your spouse, you must forgive. Perhaps, after such a crisis, you will have a reboot of relations and the family will become closer to the ideal.

After revealing the infidelity, a difficult emotional streak sets in for a woman, when she tries to understand the reasons, decide on further actions and regain self-confidence. And if, as a result of this internal analysis, a decision is made to preserve the relationship, the most difficult thing is ahead: forget about betrayal.

If you do not let go of this episode, it will remind of itself at every opportunity, poisoning the life of the couple. Was it worth continuing the relationship to doom each other to torment? But often a woman simply does not know how to forget her husband's betrayal: the advice of a psychologist may be able to suggest how to facilitate adaptation to life after the line.

In psychology, there is the concept of the effect of an unfinished action, when some episode, without having received a logical justification or conclusion, is able to get stuck in consciousness for a long time. The brain continues to scroll the chain now and then, but the puzzle is not solved, and therefore does not go out of thought. So it is with treason: long reflections on how it happened are doomed to remain unanswered and settle in the head for a long time.

However, in order to find a solution, it is necessary to correctly formulate the problem. How a person could betray and why he did so are completely different questions. If there is hardly a rational answer to the first of them, then reflecting on the second, you can put a relative order in your head.

Most likely, understanding the reasons, a woman will find many prerequisites from her own side. At this stage, it is important not to try to justify oneself, but to identify shortcomings and outline ways to correct them. When a chain of cause and effect is built, thoughts will cease to cyclically return to the event of betrayal and give way to constructive ideas.

Feeling grief is often associated with self-compassion. The feeling of pity, no matter who it comes from - from another person or from oneself - generates a feeling of inferiority, and this not only lowers self-esteem, but also becomes noticeable from the outside. It is important for the husband who has tasted the forbidden fruit to show what kind of woman he could lose, and the woman-victim is by no means an attractive sight.

At this stage, it is important to restore your self-esteem by any reasonable means, so that the fact of betrayal would cause not pity, but rather bewilderment: in what state of passion did the husband have to be in order to betray such a special woman? The higher the self-esteem, the more indulgent the attitude towards others, which means - more likely to a beautician, to fitness, hobby courses and just to the public.

If the couple came to the decision to stay together after the incident, this already suggests that the changed side admits its mistake, and the victim sees the opportunity to return life to its normal state. In a mutual desire to maintain a relationship, the best way to get rid of obsessive thoughts is dialogue.

No matter how the train of thought of a devoted woman is built, a latent feeling of resentment at fate gives them a special tragedy. In this case, it will be useful to find out that 95% of families, explicitly or covertly, have experienced adultery. The news is unpleasant, but it gives strength. If many have coped, and for especially wise couples, the transition through such a test has become a kind of reboot that brings relations to a qualitatively new level, then why sit and cry over fate? Better to make every effort to join the ranks of the latter.

Confidence can also be added by the understanding that any tests are given only "in a set" with the ability to pass them. Moreover, the successful overcoming of difficulties also implies a kind of gift, even if in the form of invaluable life experience and an easier attitude towards life.

Nothing gets your head ventilated like a change of scenery. One of the best ways to get rid of the thoughts of cheating is to travel together to places that contrast as much as possible with the current location. A person's consciousness is very associative, and every element of the environment in which betrayal was revealed, emotional battles took place and liters of tears were shed, will subconsciously bring to life the re-experiencing of these feelings. A new setting is like a blank sheet of paper on which you can start over to write your story.

Extreme tours, where mutual assistance is important, are very close. In addition to the feeling of novelty, they will give the opportunity to see each other from hitherto unknown sides, and such a new acquaintance will contribute to the fact that the betrayal will be erased from memory, like an incident that happened with the past incarnations of the couple. The psyche is arranged in such a way that any emotion is replaced by a stronger emotion, and therefore you should not rack your brains on how to forget your husband's betrayal: the advice of a psychologist boils down to not forgetting it, but displacing it with brighter and certainly positive impressions.

An experienced betrayal is like a disease in which there are no radical methods of treatment, and it can only be dealt with by increasing the body's defenses. This is what work on oneself after the experience should be aimed at, because what has not broken the marriage will only make it stronger.

“I can’t forget my husband’s betrayal,” - almost every women's forum is replete with desperate exclamations of unfortunate women. When thinking about how to come to terms with cheating, remember that most people have gone through it. This means that it is realistic to survive any test.

How to accept treason if you cannot calm down? You need to give free rein to emotions: cry, talk to friends. Listening to sad music has a kind of therapeutic effect. Take a brisk walk, visit the gym. Physical activity will keep the psyche in a difficult situation. Holding back negativity eats away from the inside. So try to keep your hands busy with something useful. You need to give vent to anger. The main condition is not to show the explosion of feelings to the culprit.

Psychologist's advice says - it is useful to speak out. However, reproaching the chosen one, you run the risk of moving away with him more. Therefore, it is better to use the "empty chair" technique. Imagine the beloved sitting on the chair opposite. Speak out empty space. The feeling of resentment finds a way out through the spoken phrases, the level of risk of conflict escalation is reduced.

Accept the fact of what happened

Letting go of the pain is the only right way out.

There is no way to change what happened. Betrayal happened, it is impossible to return the past. All that remains is to create a happy future. Try to fill the following days with extremely positive emotions.

Make the abuser repent

Cheaters usually try to blame their wives. Sometimes the root cause of male betrayal is indeed the coldness of the chosen one. However, the wrong person often tries to make excuses: to cause pity by accusing the spouse. Do not allow yourself to feel guilty. Shifting responsibility is a childish act. The cheating spouse is a pretty adult man.

How to forgive a husband for treason when a traitor refuses to admit a mistake? Sincere repentance is the only right way to build relationships. Pity is usually attempted by immature individuals who avoid responsibility. Before saying “I can’t forgive my husband’s betrayal,” make the culprit learn a lesson, sincerely repent. Otherwise, there is a risk of repeating the act.

Straight Talk

Cheating on the husband is sometimes provoked by the behavior of the spouse. Try to figure out the real reason for the cooling. Discuss the problem with him. Frank discussions will restore mutual understanding, return sincerity to the relationship.

Listen carefully to your loved one. Remain calm, try to control your emotions. An aggressive attack will provoke the adoption of a defensive position, it will become difficult for the culprit to open inner experiences. Exclusively peaceful negotiations can resolve the conflict.

In addition to understanding how to forgive a husband after cheating, understanding the real reason for betrayal can subsequently improve the union qualitatively.

Remember the joyful moments

Think about the happy moments of marriage. Try to experience the old feelings again. Resume the feeling of joy, trust, respect. Re-experiencing happy family events can help you regain peace of mind. Memories of the past will make you afraid of losing your beloved who stumbled.

Note the merits of your spouse, speak out loud. A tip on how to forgive your husband for the pain caused will arise unconsciously. A generous, benevolent attitude will reveal the positive qualities of marriage.

Live separately

A temporary break will create conditions for thinking about the events that have occurred, to comprehend the value of marriage. Pondering the problem alone will help regain independence, the decision how to forgive the betrayal of her husband will be the most correct. After parting for a short time, you will understand what to do next. Perhaps the temporary absence of a loved one will make the chosen one bored, try to return the beloved. Definitely, a secluded pastime contributes to the restoration of inner peace, to find spiritual comfort.

Find new hobbies

Find an interesting hobby. Take full free hours. The depressed state will gradually cease to bother. Play sports. Exercise relieves stress and produces happiness hormones. Yoga will help you find harmony. Embroidery, photography, apartment redevelopment - any activities will distract, give positive emotions. Monotonous hand work is especially soothing.

Take care of children

Children protect your sanity, give strength to get through hard times. Organize joint walks, communicate more often. Pay special attention to your child. Sensitive toddlers always notice broken parenting relationships. It is necessary to try to carefully explain to the child the reasons for the removal. But it must be remembered: you cannot punish the father by forbidding him to communicate with his offspring. Adults need to solve problems on their own.

Boost your self-esteem

How to forget the betrayal of her husband and, most importantly, how to accept the betrayal, to really realize only by returning self-esteem.

Insecure women are hard on betrayal. Confident, on the contrary, know the value of female attractiveness.

Men like a little cocky women. Therefore, communicate, have fun, attract the attention of the male sex. Refresh your wardrobe, visit beauty salons. Build your own self-esteem.

Remember compliments: loved ones, employees, especially boyfriends. Ask your loved one to describe your merits. Better write it down, reread it. Betrayal is a challenge to self-esteem. Bring back your own admiration for yourself.

Try to rebuild trust

Cheating on her husband, which happened once, can happen again. It is always difficult to regain lost trust. Explain to your beloved the reasons for the anxiety. Being late home, unreasonable delays, frequent calls can cause unpleasant thoughts of the spouse, because they can be signs of repeated infidelity.

Let the culprit work hard to win back trust again: fulfills requests to come home earlier, picks up the phone on time, share experiences. If the chosen one values ​​his wife, he will try to win the trust again.

Don't be jealous

After a husband's mistake, no matter how hard you try, it's hard to trust the person again. Jealousy can completely ruin all attempts to establish harmony. However, try to find the strength to forget the hurt. Checking the phone, computer, mail, endlessly arranging interrogations, you risk unjustly offending your loved one. There are probably no reasons to be jealous. Jealousy can eat away at the beloved from the inside. You need to realize that returning a trusting relationship requires the efforts of both.

Take the help of a specialist

The expert advice helps to solve the problem of how to forgive her husband's betrayal in the most correct way. When assessing a specific situation, the family counselor judges impartially. Sometimes deceived wives make the wrong decisions: they get divorced, take revenge on their mistresses, remain with the same womanizer. The outside view of a specialist will provide a favorable service.

Psychologist's advice assures that any difficult situation can be overcome.

Especially when both spouses are determined to make an effort. Many couples refuse to listen to third-party advice. However, it is the specialist who will suggest methods of restoring trust, returning respect, and helping to gain confidence. Better to be treated together. However, if your spouse refuses to attend sessions together, come alone. The counselor will help to work through negative emotions - anxiety, resentment, pain, insecurity, low self-esteem, depression.

Wait it out

You need to endure a certain period in order to finally let go of the insult. You should not pretend to be happy when pain is torn apart inside. Pretending to be happy will only make the problem worse. Give yourself time to figure out how to forget your husband's betrayal and find the strength to live on.

Try to sincerely put aside past grudges. You can not remind the chosen one of old misdeeds. Constant reproaches will only exacerbate the conflict. Having decided to return your beloved, forgive the betrayal forever. Endless reminders will alienate the chosen one, causing additional annoyance.

Sometimes situations like this only strengthen the union. A kind of check of the strength of the marriage can be useful. Having tried another life, the unfaithful spouse is often convinced that there is no one better than his wife. Remember this when the beloved begs for a second chance.

Conclusion

How to forgive your husband's betrayal and live on, if you do not believe in the best? Any difficult situation can really survive. Bad life periods go away, good ones always come in return. We live to experience a variety of human emotions. Sometimes you have to feel bitterness. There are many options for solving difficult problems.

As you intend to keep your family together, try to sincerely forget and let go of the pain of betrayal. Accusations, reproaches and quarrels can only destroy the union. Endless searching for reasons complicates the situation. The marriage will survive thanks to positive emotions, support, and tenderness. Everyone deserves a chance for a second try. Give yourself the opportunity to be happy first of all.