Everyone knows a lot of jokes about mother-in-law. But it often happens that it is not the latter who is to blame for the confrontation between the son-in-law and the mother of the wife. told a story about how she taught her son-in-law to respect his mother-in-law.

“My old friend Claudia, a kind-hearted person, was sitting in a comfortable armchair on my veranda, buried in a cup of fragrant hot tea with soothing herbs. “I never thought that I would become a mother-in-law from jokes ... I was always indignant when the mothers of my wives climbed into someone else's family, I was always sure that we would have an excellent relationship with my son-in-law. But it didn't work out. I don't even know why I didn't like him. I live separately, I do not climb into the affairs of the family. But now I can’t see Svetochka even on holidays - Volodya makes a scandal for her every time she finds out that she is going to visit me. I miss her so much!" At this point, Klava sighed heavily and burst into tears. My heart sank with pain. Is it fair not to let you see your own child? Even now he has his own family.

Before his marriage to Svetlana, Vladimir gave flowers to his future mother-in-law and said endless compliments. "It's cozy in your house! How delicious are you cooking! Can Sveta do that? Volodya smiled. But already on the day of the wedding, he showed his difficult character. When the bride approached her mother for five minutes to chat like a woman, Volodya flew at her like a hawk. “Sveta, you should be with me. Today is our day. Why are you talking to mom? Haven't talked in 25 years? - the newly-made spouse attacked the taken aback Svetlana. Further more. If the husband caught Sveta on a telephone conversation with her mother, he gave her a scolding. Asking her mother to visit, the young wife already began to worry in advance: “How will her husband react to this?”

After listening carefully to Claudia, I asked her to introduce me to her daughter and her husband. Vova behaved very strangely. As if he was jealous of his wife for his mother. And it was necessary to understand why he behaves this way. As it turned out when we met, everyone has their own truth. “You can’t even imagine how annoying it is for me that in the rare hours that I can spend with my wife, she begins to communicate with her mother, friends, and other relatives. I understand that Sveta is a very sociable and kind person. But am I not entitled to her attention? I love her very much and when she does this, of course I am more angry with the one she is talking to than with her. - “Well, Volodya, what is your reaction when Sveta is going to visit her mother? Doesn't this happen more than once a month? “Before that, do you know what’s going on? Today she is at Masha's, tomorrow at Galya's, then she has to meet her colleagues. And I?" “Do you know why I act like this? Sveta entered. - Because you come, turn on the TV and don't even look in my direction. What should I do, just sit next to me? Boring!" - "All clear. I already laughed inwardly. “Well, how do you feel about your mother-in-law, Volodya?” “I am angry with her because I think that she, like no one else, should understand what a young family is and inspire her daughter about the importance of spending time with her husband. It seems to me that she is doing everything to separate us! Well, you can’t be patient and not climb into our family for at least the first six months? I am terrified of what will happen when Sveta becomes pregnant. It seems to me that she will then forget about me at all!

Having found out what and how, I thought about several rituals and conversations. First of all, I talked to Sveta and Volodya and explained that they urgently needed to find a common hobby. Secondly, she asked Sveta to chat with her friends and mother in the absence of the missus. But with Volodya she couldn’t think of anything, except for the ceremony - the man was too sure of his innocence.

“Are you also bitter that mom and husband can’t find a common language in any way? So read these words on any thing that the husband wears, - I said to Sveta. - You can also read over any drink or food that he will eat. Read at the first ray of the sun, at early dawn: “I pray early, I am baptized to you, God. Like any person, from now on and until the century, his nose, his mouth do not irritate, he is not superfluous, they do not interfere with his face, but they help to live and live. As he cannot do without them, not from the first minute until the hour of his death, so my mother would not interfere with the servant of God Vladimir, did not infuriate and irritate. It would not seem to him like a snake and a terrible Satan, but would be his own mother. He would begin to miss her, as if he were his mother, with boredom, mourn with grief. I wouldn’t lie down without eating, I wouldn’t leave without drinking. I would pity her as my own hand, I would take my son's torment for her. How a son would miss my mother, grieved, yearned, would not eat a piece, but would give it to her. Gyrfalcon in the sky, fish in the water. And the dawn, dawn, take away the goryushko. Help me, God's servant Svetlana. Amen".

I also found a ritual for Claudia. “Don’t call your daughter for two weeks, and then call your son-in-law and ask for a visit,” I told her. - Just Shrovetide week will be. As you fry pancakes at home, fry a few in fish oil. And when frying, read: “I commemorate with a pancake that fish that is silent, that son-in-law that speaks against. Amen".

Made by Sveta and Klava, as I said. But I learned about the reconciliation of my mother-in-law and son-in-law from Volodya. He called me and thanked me. “Thank you, Olga Mikhailovna, for talking with my mother-in-law and my wife. Now everything is as I wanted for a long time. They communicate when I'm not at home. And if I go on business trips, I myself ask my wife to go to my mother. That's how we live. And often I myself call the mother-in-law to keep secrets and chat. And so we start talking with her, that Sveta is already starting to get jealous. Recently I heard from her: “Two hours have passed! Haven't spoken yet?" And laughed."

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If your husband's relatives eat you

Invite them over for a meal. Bake pancakes and give them jelly to drink. When serving pancakes and jelly, say to yourself three times:

I commemorate your anger with pancakes, wash it down with jelly. Amen.

So that the mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law

Slander on sweets, gingerbread, tea, on everything you can treat your mother-in-law:

As your son is dear to you, dear to your blood, your flesh, so I will be your blood, flesh, according to your soul, according to your heart. Love me like your child and more than your heart. Amen.

So that the mother-in-law does not offend

It is read by the bride on her wedding day in the house where her mother-in-law lives, in the corner where there is no icon:

Sheep, I am your wolf, be afraid of me. Mother-in-law, I am your Sun and Moon, my words are strong. Mother-in-law-devil, take off your tongue, stand up like a pillar, I'm over you head. Amen.

So that the mother-in-law loves her son-in-law

I enter the house, I don’t look at the icons, poof, mother-in-law, I’m a son-in-law, I can take all the power. You keep quiet, and I scream. Here I am sir. Amen.

If the mother-in-law interferes with the son-in-law

Sophia from Severodvinsk writes: “My husband hates my mother. My mother is good and kind. I was raised alone, I was afraid that my stepfather might offend. While she was healthy, she helped in any way she could. All pickles, jams - from her hands. I cooked pies and donuts every day. She fell ill, I began to persuade my husband to take her to me, she can no longer manage alone, the time has come to repay her debts. I see it melting before my eyes, gradually leaving me.

And the husband was furious: "Either I, or this stinker." Mother does not leave the room so as not to catch his eye. The toilet and then stealthily goes.

Today he made a scandal and left. He said that while his mother was in the house, his legs would not be here. My mother says that I should give her to a nursing home and not break my life because of her. She says that she doesn’t care to die, but I, they say, need to live. She says that she will do something with herself to free me from herself, but she is only afraid that I will be scared when I see her in a noose.

It's a shame that my mother never said a bad word to him.

What to do, Natalya Ivanovna?

Read the plot on his thing, the one that will be worn, or on food or drink. They read at the first ray of the Sun, at an early dawn:

I pray early, I am baptized to you, God. Like any person, now and forever, his nose, his mouth do not irritate, he is not superfluous, they do not interfere with his face, but help him to live. How can he do without them, not from the first time until the hour of death. So my mother would not interfere with the servant of God (name), did not infuriate and irritate. It would not seem to him like a snake and a terrible Satan, but would be his own mother. He would have begun to miss her, as if he were his mother, to miss her, to grieve with grief. I wouldn’t lie down without eating, I wouldn’t leave without drinking. I would pity her as my own hand, I would take my son's torment for her. How a son would miss my mother, grieved, yearned, would not eat a piece, but would give it to her. Gyrfalcon in the sky, fish in the water. And the dawn, dawn, take away the goryushko. Help me, God's servant (name). Amen.

Give your son-in-law a pancake fried in fish oil, say that it is very healthy.

When frying a pancake, say a slander:

I commemorate with a pancake that fish that is silent, that son-in-law that speaks against. Amen.

To the peacefulness of the son-in-law and mother-in-law

They put a willow wand on the threshold, slander it nine times, and then beat it on the threshold with this wand twelve times.

My business is tricky. My willow rod, do not break, do not rot, submit to my cause. So submit and make peace, servants of God (names). I drive with a willow twig from this threshold all malice, all resentment. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

Friendship of brother and sister

They light a candle from both sides, slander it and let it burn out completely.

Lord, my God, how this candle has two ends, so that until the end of time, brother and sister, servants of God (names), do not quarrel among themselves. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

From a greedy mother-in-law

The woman-mother writes: “I raised my son alone, it was hard for me to get it. Raised without a male hand, brought up in a feminine way soft and compliant. The son got married, lives with his mother-in-law, works two jobs, does not drink, and his mother-in-law is still not enough, the skin and bones of the guy are left. I don’t want to breed them, I feel sorry for my grandson, and my daughter-in-law. People say that there is a slander from a greedy mother-in-law. Teach, help mother's grief. I have one, I feel sorry for him.

They take a used bath broom, tie a rope around the handle, carry it to a birch okolok and hang it on a birch there, but in such a way that no one can see. They go around this birch three times and read a slander near it, and then they leave without looking back at the birch, and are silent all the way to the house. If you hear barking somewhere along the way, then you need to redo everything.

Mother birch, as your branches burn, so let the greed of the servant of God (name) burn. Amen.

So that the son-in-law is not offended

“Natalya Ivanovna, whatever I do, my son-in-law doesn’t like it. We live together, he puffs up and is silent, it’s very hard.”

Take the spoken food, let him taste it.

I remember your anger. You, servant of God (name), be baptized more often, pray to Jesus Christ, do not be angry with me, God's servant (name). Eat, eat, drink, drink, but don't hurt me. Amen.

If the son-in-law does not want to work

Go to the ant pile, put a glass of water on it and read forty times.

Take away the water, pour the son-in-law into a drink, reading "Our Father".

Our Father, Who art in heaven! Hallowed be Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, as in heaven and on earth. Give us our daily bread today; and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.

The plot is read over the ant heap:

Oh my God. Water from the sea, shadow from the sun, star from the moon. Lord, God, help. As ants work, as bees drag honey, they don’t know peace and laziness, so the servant of God (name), worked, didn’t know peace, helped his family in everything. My word is stucco, my deed is tenacious. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen.

How to make your son the head of the family

When you go to the future daughter-in-law to woo her for her son, let the son come in first. He does not take off his hat in front of the matchmakers until they are seated at the table. If one of the wooers manages to take away a spoon from the bride's house, then the son will be the master in the house and the wife will never leave him. Three months after their wedding, the spoon should be thrown into the house of the bride.

A wedding dress, a ring, a veil should not be allowed to be measured by either girlfriends or sisters. Otherwise, there will be quarrels in the family.

If at the wedding one of the young people first steps to the altar, he will be the head of the family.

You can not invite an even number of guests to the wedding, this is bad.

You can’t let guests from the wedding into the bedroom of the young, and even more so show their bed.

If the wife’s ring falls during the wedding, she will die first, if the husband’s ring falls, he is a short-lived tenant.

If someone throws salt into the bride's shoes, first into the right, then into the left, the young woman will cry with her husband all the time. According to custom, shoes are stolen at a wedding, be careful.

If someone wants to separate the young people and turns the wedding dress on the left side and leaves it hanging for the night, tying the hem in a knot, the young people will very soon disperse. Therefore, you need to take care of the bride's dress until the year of their life.

The matchmaker does not take salt - the children will not live, they will disperse.

How to remove the hatred of the mother-in-law

This theme is present in almost every letter. You read and marvel at how people manage to spoil their relationships, make enemies within the family! There is a lack of tolerance and indulgence among both the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. And the result is inevitably the same - divorce.

Here is one of the many letters.

“... I married for love. Young people tend to retire, but there are mothers-in-law who are simply infuriated by the fact that her son gives his wife attention and care. It seems to them that their sons forget them. All sorts of nit-picking begins: you clean the wrong way, you wash the wrong way, you don’t know how or don’t want to cook. Although my husband and I are happy to eat sandwiches and apples, just to be together. It's such happiness!

The mother-in-law specifically and very loudly says:

“If she loved you like I do, she would feed you and take care of you the way you should. And she only loves herself. Out of respect for your mother, she could mop the floor one more time...

No, just think, as if this could prove respect! After such conversations, my soul naturally turns away from her. Why embarrass me in front of my husband? Why so openly show your dislike for me? What did I do to her?

My husband, of course, took my side. He did not scold her, but simply said:

Mom, I'm not hungry. If need be, we will cook, you need not worry. We're fine.

And with those words, he pissed her off even more. How?! He is for this snotty girl, and not for me?! I raised him, fed him, gave him my whole life, and so on.

If I do laundry, she comes in and says:

- To spend so much powder for one wash? It's just unthinkable! Did you grow up in a family of millionaires? Or do I have to buy powders every day now?

Or, I washed my panties and bra (sorry) and, embarrassed by my father-in-law, did not hang them in the bathroom, but hung them in my room with my husband. Then she jumped in and began to speak in an irritated, angry and sarcastic voice:

- Just think, son, how your wife does not respect you! Hangs clothes under your nose, and you sniff!

We don’t spend money like that, we don’t buy it, and in general we do everything wrong ... As a result, my husband began to tell me the same thing.

I started to hate her. When my daughter was born, I left, I just didn’t have the strength anymore. I will never forgive her for ruining my happiness. My child is now growing up without a father.

You may ask why we did not leave her for an apartment? We tried, but she immediately "fell ill". My husband is kind, and we returned.

Now he is married again. Their neighbor told me that everything is still there, the same topic. I feel sorry for that girl, because I know very well that his mother will not let anyone take even a particle of her son's heart. This heart belongs only to her.

From another letter:

“Hello, Natalya Ivanovna!

Before marriage, everything was fine in my life, despite the fact that we lived poorly after the war. I graduated from the Blagoveshchensk Institute and moved to Sakhalin to work. She got married a year later. All good things ended there very quickly.

In August we moved in with his parents. This is where it all started. For some reason, his mother didn't like me. She said about me:

- Imported from China. It's like they're not here!

Although, I think, there was nothing bad in me: I didn’t drink, I didn’t smoke, I was inferior in everything and tried to please my husband.

The husband was 29 years old. When he came home from work, he first of all asked: “Where is Olya?” His mother told him that I had just come in drunk and climbed in through the window. After that, he lashed out at me.

I asked her:

Why are you saying this?

And then there were births and such difficult ones that if they told me: choose, one more birth or death, then I would choose death.

I heard with my own ears how the mother-in-law said: “What, this snake has not died yet?”

And when the doctor said that I would not live more than five years, she laughed. I think it was she who made me spoil to death. Olga Petrovna M.

Another letter:

“... They played the wedding, and I moved into the house of my mother-in-law. Before the wedding, while my husband and I were just dating, I had a normal relationship with his mother. And when they began to live together, quarrels began. I blame my mother-in-law for everything.

I left twice, but since I love my husband very much, I returned again. My husband was torn between me and his mother. He felt sorry for both me and the mother who raised him alone.

Once there was a scandal. My husband took my side, because I told him that if I leave again, I will never return. He did not hit his mother, but shouted that she was ruining his life. Who would have thought that she would go to her room and commit suicide there ...

Before her death, she wrote something to us, but broke it off. We will never know who she blamed: him or me. Or just decided that no one else needs it.

We have lived for 26 years, we have adult children. A daughter-in-law has already appeared in my house, and only now I realized how great my guilt is, what a sin is on my soul. I fought for power - with whom? With the woman who gave birth and raised me a good husband?

We never talk about what happened, we avoid this topic. We take care of the grave, we plant flowers. But I know that I am responsible for the death of this woman. Guilty before her husband, guilty before God. I was just a stupid, young girl and didn't understand anything.

I want young women to read my letter. Let them know that some mistakes cannot be corrected.”

Unfortunately, there are many such letters. People and circumstances are different. I, of course, will give conspiracies to pacify fierce mothers-in-law, I, of course, will give amulets to families and help with everything I can.

But I'll tell you what, my dears. Sometimes you need to be wise. And wisdom is inherent not only to mature people.

Do not neglect my advice, I give them to you from the bottom of my heart, I give it so that peace, harmony and love reign in your house.

Think for yourself, you love your husband for certain qualities. But it is unlikely that you thought about the fact that your loved one became just like that because his mother created and raised him that way. And with your marriage, she cannot lose her influence over her son. After all, you also listen to the words and advice of your mother, trusting her infinitely, knowing how much she loves you. Therefore, do not try to inspire or tell your husband bad things about his mother, this will be your first mistake.

Perhaps for some time the husband will take your side in a chivalrous way, but sooner or later the son's feelings will speak in him, and then, through pity for the mother, your relationship will be doomed ...

If you disagree with your mother-in-law in something, you should not negotiate through your husband. It will be tantamount to setting the son against the mother. And also unwillingness to communicate personally with the mother-in-law.

Get ready for the fact that many things will not suit her for a very simple reason: "Everything is not done for her."

Agree, she lived for many decades in her own way. All things are in the designated places. She alone was the hostess in the kitchen, and in all the rooms too.

And here you are. For her, everything changed immediately. You hang other curtains, lay other paths (to your liking). “Alien” dishes appear in the kitchen and, perhaps, her favorite stove has become not entirely clean.

She spent her whole life buying Lotus washing powder, and you snatched off the expensive Ariel, and, as it seems to her, her son pays for it. Friends began to come to you, the TV is on for a long time, music and noise often come from your room, and she thinks: “No one cares that I have pressure and my head hurts, that I can’t sleep for a long time ...”

The first three years of life in the husband's family are spent on laying the foundation of family relations, including with the mother-in-law. If during this time you manage to win the favor of your mother-in-law with wisdom and patience, consider that your marriage will last for many years.

Believe me, if your husband fools around, his mother will bruise her forehead so that your marriage does not fall apart. She will cry and persuade her son not to disperse, to come to his senses, since the daughter-in-law is good, and what will be next is still unknown.

So, according to diligence and mind it is given.

Here are a few rules for winning the heart of the mother-in-law:

Call her "mom" whenever possible.

In no case do not raise your voice to the mother-in-law.

In the event of a quarrel between a husband and mother, take only her side, even if you think your husband is right.

If possible, make mother-in-law even inexpensive gifts.

You should know when your mother-in-law has a birthday, all other important dates in her life: March 8, Mother's Day, New Year, Easter, etc. Try to congratulate her first, this will be noticed, I assure you.

Inquire about the health of your mother-in-law, if necessary, buy medicine for her personally so that she feels that her health is not indifferent to you.

If you live separately, try to find time to clean her apartment.

Go visit your mother-in-law more often. Call just to chat.

Never speak ill of her son, you will not be forgiven for that.

Tell her somehow, preferably at a table with guests, that you are infinitely grateful to her for her son. And that it is her merit that he is a good husband and person. She will remember this for the rest of her life.

Knit or sew something for your mother-in-law. It will come back to you, and more than once, in other things.

Never talk badly about your mother-in-law or your husband to your neighbors and relatives. They can convey and distort the essence.

Never ask your mother-in-law for money, and if you take it, be sure to return it on time.

Tell your mother-in-law that she is still pretty and that your son is all into her.

Your children are her grandchildren. If not for her, then your husband would not exist. And if, for example, you had a different husband, then your children would be completely different. So, its share is in your children. Remember this and do not forbid the grandmother to communicate with her grandchildren.

Be merciful and patient with your mother-in-law's character. And to illness. And God will be merciful to you in your old age. And no one escaped from old age, except for the dead.

I want to especially say about her "trash". Every thing, every broken vase is a stage of her life. Turn a blind eye to this generously and never throw anything away without permission. Do not talk disrespectfully about the things of the mother-in-law, perhaps outwardly she will agree, but resentment will lie in her heart.

Conspiracy on a fierce mother-in-law

The coltsfoot plant breaks from the root on Friday at noon.

Stand facing east and read the plot, and on the word "amen" break the plant in half. Bury the top in the same place where it grew, and throw the root at the mother-in-law's house.

Mother-and-stepmother, I plucked you. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, the Immaculate Holy Virgin, the chastity of St. John the Baptist, the chastity of St. John the Evangelist. May you serve me now and forever and forever and ever. Order your stepmother to become a mother, to me, a servant of God (name), not to rage, not to scream, not to growl angrily, not to push me around, not to curse with words, not to frighten my husband.

As you, grass, came out of the earth through stones and sand, through red clay, so send me, grass, beautiful mother-in-law. She didn’t destroy, but she loved the servant of God (name). My word is strong, my deed is tenacious. Key, lock, grass. Amen. Amen. Amen.

On the mother-in-law's evil tongue

Give the grumpy mother-in-law a drink of jelly, and when you cook jelly, say this:

Rejoice in me, servant of God (name), as a mother rejoices in a child, a mare in a foal, a sheep in a lamb, the holy father - Happy Easter. Look for me, Lord, mother-in-law caresses. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

If the mother-in-law does not allow to live

In front of me is Olya, a thin woman who looks like a teenager, but has two twin boys. The look and voice of a doomed man. What she says agrees with her thoughts: she is not cunning.

Her story is this. She married the man she loved. She gave birth to twins. Anyone who has even spent a day with two babies will understand how hard it is. One falls asleep, the other wakes up. But the husband turned out to be a good father, he helped in everything.

The mother-in-law, who lived at that time with her husband's brother, sold her apartment and gave him money for turnover in trade, and went to live with Olya and Sasha.

On the very first day, she made a scandal, which came out because of what. Exhausted by insomnia, Olya washed diapers and prayed for the children to sleep longer, they still had to have time to prepare dinner for adults, wash and iron.

The mother-in-law, who liked to chat with her friends, just at that moment began to call them. Olya asked her to speak a little quieter, very politely, without any tricks. What started here!

She shouted: “I am the same as you, hostess, and don’t x ... tell me! I pissed off the children to milk my son, he will be their slave all his life!” And the children woke up, crying. Olya took them both in her arms and began to walk around the room. In the evening, the mother-in-law began to slander her husband, crying that her life would end in a nursing home. The husband, a gentle, kind man, at the sight of his mother's tears, began to get nervous and reprimand his wife that, they say, it was possible to yield to the old man and not bring the matter to tears and abuse. He asked me not to forget that this was his mother, etc. When he went to work, and Olya stayed with her mother-in-law and with the children, she very subtly played her thoughtful game. She spoke nasty things, insulted. Looking into the pot, she announced: "Soup called vomit," or like this: "My shit looks better than what you cook." She told him something completely different in her room, and loudly so that he could be heard. She understood that Olya would be angry with her lies. She said: “I don’t know, Sasha, I don’t know how to please her. I wash my dishes and wash diapers, I call her “daughter”, and she answers me: “What kind of daughter am I to you?”

“Natalya Ivanovna,” says Olya, “I swear to you, she never called me a daughter. Only "lousy skeleton" or "asshole". But how can I be complete if I'm like a squirrel in a wheel spinning all day with two children? Before pregnancy, I was fuller. The question is not even in my offense, what I am in appearance, this is what I am, but in the fact that I can be left alone with two one-year-old children because of her. My husband has changed a lot for me, he began to drink. It is not clear where he spends the night, and his mother-in-law begins to feel sorry for him when he comes: “My unfortunate boy, they brought you, you are running away from home.”

One day, the husband again did not come to spend the night. Having suffered with the children, upset by the absence of Sasha, I went to my mother-in-law. She lay with a cigarette and read a love story.

"Please, let's talk," I said. In response, smoke in my direction and silence.

- Nina Pavlovna, don't you really feel sorry for, if not grandchildren, then your son Sasha. He didn't drink at all before. So what can we share with you? Let's make up, I beg you. I love Sasha, I have no one but my family. I don't remember my mother, please replace her for me. You are getting old, anything is possible, I will never refuse to help you. Only you help me now. I'm on the verge, I can't understand anything, how I'm flying into the abyss.

This is where she told me:

“I’ll stand up to my neck in blood, and even if you give birth to five more children, I won’t let Sasha live with you.”

Matishche, the dog is evil, the mother-in-law is not native. The star will not converge with the star, the evil of the mother-in-law will not spill on me. As you, mother, gnaw a bone, so you, the servant of God (name), will not plague me.

To a grumbling mother-in-law

It's no secret that a grouchy mother-in-law with her absurd character, eternal discontent and nit-picking can destroy even the strongest family. In order to correct this misfortune, you need to know three slanders: the first, which is read for the young month (for the strength of the daughter-in-law in front of the mother-in-law), the second - for the waning month, so that quarrels subside, the third - for the full moon, so that the mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law. Each of these slanders is read at one time according to the growth or the end of the month, but certainly on Friday.

First conspiracy (for a young month)

As a young month is born and will go through the Lord’s heaven in its own way and its own path, its own master, so would the servant of God (name), the young mistress, have strength and power over her mother-in-law. And she would know the roads of all her household and would hold them in her right hand, in her right fist. Tsyts, mother-in-law, I'm your head. Amen.

Bake pancakes, talk about them and feed your mother-in-law.

Second conspiracy (for a waning month)

As the month is waning, it is coming to an end, so the quarrels in our house would come to an end, melt away. My mother-in-law would be silent, as the dead do not scream, as the fish in the ocean-sea are silent. Amen.

Third conspiracy (to the full moon)

As the full moon shines in the sky, it illuminates the entire Lord's sky, so would my mother-in-law's heart be full to me. So she would lavish affection on me, like the full moon illuminated the sky. I lock my whole tale with a moon lock, a moon key, a moon light. Amen.

Prepare a good dinner, speak over it three times and make sure that the mother-in-law is the first to sit down at the table, and when she starts eating, show her a fig under the table. As people begin to wonder and ask why you have such peace in the house, do not tell anyone how you achieved this.

If the mother-in-law washed the floor for you

“Finally, the mother-in-law waited for what she wanted, divorced me from my husband. When I was packing my things, she was already covering my tracks in front of me and saying that my foot should not appear here anymore. And even the furniture moved differently. Now I live without men, no one pays attention to me. And at our wedding, she took away all the gifts and money that they gave us. She gave me her ring for registration, and then took it away. It's not me, but she got married. I hate her".

I have already written about rings in previous textbooks. You can not take someone else's ring for registration and wedding. If necessary, you can remove the bad from yourself in this way.

Weave a braid of sedge (be careful not to cut your hands). The size of the braid should be from the little finger to the elbow. Then this braid is thrown into the river downstream. They wash with a slander. But first, it’s good to read the prayer: “O those who hate and offend us.”

Praying for those who have crucified Thee, O Lord, loving-kindness, and Thy servant praying for enemies, forgive those who hate and offend us, and from all evil and deceit to a brotherly-loving and virtuous dwelling, we humbly offer you a prayer; yes, in unanimous unanimity, we glorify Thee, the One Lover of mankind.

Mother river, steep banks. You do not stand in one place, you run day and night: at the Sun and at dawn, at the stars and at the Moon. You wash and rinse: forest grasses and golden sands. Grant me peace. Most Holy Mother of God, cover with your robe. Wash away trouble from me, servants of God (name). Wash away, rinse all spells and curses: far-fetched and made, old and new, day and night, with candles and coals, with icons, lamps, with grave earth, with blood and saliva. My word is strong, my deed is tenacious. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen.

From the word in anger

Prayers consist of a string of words. The word materializes, carries what they wish. Especially if, during a quarrel, the blood lover wishes bad things.

We have long since reconciled, the memory has erased the quarrel, but evil is growing.

Inna M. says: “My mother loves us, but as far as I can remember, she curses us during quarrels, says:

- God forbid you wrap snot around your fist, push around, but more, maybe you will appreciate your mother.

And I really suffer all my life, no share, no happiness. Everything as my mother wished: I shake my snot on my fist. Recently, a grandmother told me that I was cursed by my mother, that her seal was in my eyes. She said that both children and grandchildren will suffer through this.

Natalya Ivanovna, is there any protection against this and how to remove it? Read the amulet at dawn:

How not to take milk from a duck, not to collect apples from rye, not to twist a rope out of water, not to knock butter out of shit, so not to spoil with a curse: neither bloody nor stranger, neither old nor young, neither in gray hair, nor in bald spots, with or without teeth. Neither mother, nor sisters, nor brothers will be according to this curse. The cross protects the church, and the Lord is His servant (name). Amen.

How to remove a bad message on a person

In a cup of water, move the knife counterclockwise and read forty times. Then wash the one who needs it.

Christ comes, leads 12 disciples, speaks, explains, shows, Punishes his commandments. It is impossible to curse souls, it is necessary to save souls from evil. Save, Lord, save, remove the curse from the servant of God (name). I believe in the One God Christ. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

So that the daughter-in-law does not run away from home

From a letter: “We are in trouble. My daughter-in-law leaves her children and hangs out with her friends for three days. I try to talk to her, and she answers me: “They also have a father. Let him sit with them. Thank God, we now have equality.”

And how will he sit, because he needs to work. Besides him, no one works, and I have been retired for a long time.”

Run your little finger across the soot from bottom to top in the furnace and vice versa. Then smear the threshold of the house with this soot with the words:

As this soot of the furnace forehead holds, so the servant of God (name) would hold on to his house, would not hang out in other people's huts. Amen to my words, amen to my words.

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Tear dry grass from the graveyard. Set fire to it and do not leave until it decays. While the smoke is coming, say:

As this smoke goes up and not down, so my daughter-in-law (name), keep your house. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

For the daughter-in-law to help in the house (for lazy)

Boil the soup, pour her first, and yourself last. Wash your own dishes first, and then your daughter-in-law's dishes and say while washing:

As I wash it off, so I will cover you with work. Amen.

They don’t do it on the third day of the week, on the birthday of the daughter-in-law or grandchildren, so that there is no backlash.

So that the stepfather does not beat the children

“My husband has some kind of abnormal power over me. By nature, I am neither fish nor meat, and even more so I cannot argue with him. By nature, he is very cruel and domineering. When we got together, he beat me very badly several times. He kicked me in the stomach, I'm afraid of him. When he comes drunk, everything inside me goes cold. His children are not native to him, before he did not touch them, but now he began to beat them. Who needs me with children. He is the master of my apartment. I will not dare to share an apartment, it will kill me. Nobody cares about people like me, I was made redundant at the factory, I wash floors for a penny, God forbid I lose this job. It is impossible to get a job, they do not take it anywhere. Trade - you need money for turnover. We eat bread and potatoes. But still, this is not the worst thing: I can’t look children in the eyes for not being able to protect them. What to do?"

Cut off your husband's hair when he sleeps, throw it and three knives with wooden handles into boiling water. Read three times. Then drain the jar and put it in the front corner for three days, then take the water to the cemetery, pour it on the ground.

In a dark hut, not with the Sun, not with the Moon, not with a bright star, there are not beds, but wooden beds. People sleep there, do not wake up, do not break their fast on Easter, their hands and feet do not rise, their mouths do not open in speeches. So the servant of God (name) would not raise his hands, his lips would not open in swearing, he would not wave his legs, he would not shout. He would all miss me (name) and children (names). Key, lock, tongue. Amen.

So that the stepfather does not rape your daughter (amulet)

Sometimes it happens. This slander will help you avoid this trouble. If you decide to marry a second time and you have a daughter, in order to take the evil one away, talk about water, tea, etc., and on the third day of your life together, get your husband drunk.

As Christ was born, died and rose again, and as it is true, so it will be true that the evil one will not bribe my husband with temptation and my husband will not destroy my daughter. Just as it is true that Jesus Christ is resurrected, so is it true and true, God preserves it. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen.

So that there is no fornication in the relationship

Incest is an unforgivable sin, besides this, there are situations when a widower and a widow converge, and their adult children, so that no sin comes out, read on one of the Saturdays in any corner where there are no icons.

About the relationship of sons-in-law and mother-in-law There are a lot of funny anecdotes and funny stories. And in fact , relations between these relatives often are not easy. However, in addition to funny and funny cases, quite tragic stories also happen.
When a son-in-law and a mother-in-law quarrel, the wife suffers first of all, because she has to rush between her beloved husband and mother.

Peace conspiracy between son-in-law and mother-in-law

In order to reconcile loved ones, you need to pronounce a conspiracy for peace between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law.
The plot is read on the threshold of the house. Before you begin to pronounce a conciliatory conspiracy, you need to put a willow rod on the threshold. Then say the following words to him nine times:

"My cause is right,
Willow rod, do not break and do not rot,
And obey my words,
And you, servant of God (husband's name) and God's servant (mother's name),
Submit to my words, and make peace forever!
I will drive away all insults, all anger, all trouble from my doorstep with this rod,
Amen!".

Mother-in-law's conspiracy for son-in-law to love daughter

A good family relationship for a daughter is the wish of every mother. So that the husband’s feelings do not weaken, and he does not have a desire to change, say the following spell:

"The bath-mother smokes,

The dead has blood

My son-in-law's heart is cold.

Becomes cold and cold

The servant of God (name) will not cheat on his wife.

Don't hug a dead girl

Don't touch the dead heart.

So that the son-in-law, the servant of God (name),

I couldn't cheat on my wife.

Sauna stove, gray smoke,

Help that the servant of God (name)

I could not change the servant of God (name).

Would he (the name of the opponent) sweaty and nasty,

And my daughter (name) son-in-law (name) would be

Desirable and sweet.

Would he love her, would he keep her,

As I, her mother, is ready to give my soul for her.

My bathing word is stucco, strong.

Key, lock, tongue.

Amen. Amen. Amen".

It is advisable to conduct the ceremony in a melted bath. Take any thing of the son-in-law and throw it into the oven with the words of the conspiracy. Repeat the ritual three times.

Already after the first time, you will begin to notice a change in the family, and when you complete the cycle completely, the relationship will completely normalize.

A conspiracy so that the son-in-law loves and respects the mother-in-law

When lovers decide to create a family nest, all their thoughts are occupied only by the upcoming event. And domestic issues fade into the background.

Often conflicts arise between the mother-in-law and the new relative - especially if young people have to live with their parents.

The husband begins to get angry, to prove his case - after all, it is very important for a man to feel his power. And your mother is not inferior to him in anything. The result is constant quarrels, scandals and misunderstandings.

There is a very effective conspiracy that, with your sincere desire, will help solve the current problem.

Calculate according to the lunar calendar sixteenth lunar day- this period is most favorable for the family and relations between relatives.

From the very morning, tune in to a positive result - smile more and rejoice. Try to smooth out all the clashes between your spouse and your mother.

When evening comes, put three lighted candles on the table and say:

“Servant of God (mother's name), servant of God (name of husband) and servant of God (her own name), Jesus commanded to live in the world, for the sake of peace he hung on the cross. Pride, calm down. Anger, go away. Discord, go to the yard. May it be so!"

Put out the fire and when everyone is asleep, put one candle under your mother's bed, and two under yours and your spouse - one on each side. And during the week do not touch the charmed candles. Then remove them and bury them.

Do not forget that magical texts should be read with a pure heart - otherwise the magic will not work.

Do not attract evil to other people, and you yourself will not know misfortune. Try to give others only kindness and good mood - then problems will bypass you!

Everything about religion and faith - "prayer of reconciliation between son-in-law and mother-in-law" with a detailed description and photographs.

If the relationship with the mother-in-law develops badly, I recommend that you speak to her in respect and love. Already on the 13th day, the mother-in-law will become kinder.

With the mother-in-law jokes are bad. You have to feel sorry for her from time to time.

She gave her precious daughter into your hands.

She loves her madly, but she does not want to respect you at all.

Apparently, there is something to complain about.

Don't worry - things will get better.

Perform a special magical conspiracy that will help the mother-in-law change her attitude towards her unloved son-in-law.

You do not need to go to the Orthodox Church. Candles do not need to be lit. Everything is much easier.

Before a planned meeting with your mother-in-law or an unpleasant conversation, and also if you live together, read these occult lines repeatedly:

I speak to my mother-in-law with seven seas, let there be no enmity between us. I drive away the energy of discord, I fill the emptiness with respect. Let him blunt his dislike, he will not approach with bad thoughts. May it be done! Amen! Amen! Amen!

And the second, no less powerful, conspiracy is to consolidate the occult effect.

As soon as the mother-in-law wants to quarrel, everything will immediately become aggravated in the hustle and bustle. As she loves her daughter, let her not scold me out of anger. I read lines for her love, drive away troubles and troubles. The mother-in-law will respect the son-in-law, and will no longer humiliate. May it be done! Amen! Amen! Amen!

Nothing more needs to be done.

Wait for mother-in-law's location for at least 13 days.

If a positive result does not happen, carry out all the activities again, only on full moon days.

Live in peace with each other!

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To the peacefulness of the son-in-law and mother-in-law

They put a willow wand on the threshold, slander it nine times, and then beat it on the threshold with this wand twelve times.

My willow rod, don't break, don't bend,

Submit to my cause.

So submit and make peace, servants of God (names).

I drive with a willow twig from this threshold

Any malice, any resentment.

Now, forever, forever and ever.

They light a candle from both sides, slander it and let it burn out completely.

Like this candle has two ends

So that until the end of the century they do not quarrel among themselves

Brother and sister, servants of God (names).

In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.

Conspiracy to respect the mother-in-law

Even if a man and a woman consciously chose each other and connected their relationship out of love and harmony, this does not always guarantee that all other relatives will also easily find a common language and live in peace. Often situations arise when a wife cannot establish relations with her husband's parents, or, conversely, conflicts and misunderstandings arise between the mother-in-law and son-in-law. And no arguments of reason, love between spouses and even patience can not help to establish a dialogue.

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White magic has long helped in situations where other means and methods are powerless. That is why conspiracies and love spells remain such popular ways to build relationships. The mother-in-law conspiracy helps to restore peace between the spouse and mother, maintain calm communication and not bring discord into the family. There are rituals that help prevent any misunderstandings, they should be applied from the first day you meet your parents. Other rituals are aimed at eliminating problems and conflicts that have already arisen, and are more powerful. In a different situation, you need to use a suitable conspiracy.

How to avoid conflict

In order for peaceful and good relations to be restored from the first meeting of the future groom and parents, the girl should make a conspiracy so that the mother-in-law loves her son-in-law. Such a measure is not superfluous, because you can never be completely sure that the parents will treat her chosen one as warmly and cordially as she herself. A small and uncomplicated ritual will increase the likelihood of creating a good atmosphere and accepting the groom into the family.

Most often, the first meeting takes place at the table or at least during a tea party. The girl needs to cook something with her own hands, for example, bake a cake, speak food and tea. It is important to tune in a positive way, think only about the good outcome of the meeting and put all the best intentions into the preparation process. Then the conspiracy to respect the son-in-law's mother-in-law will be effective and will give the desired results. At the same time, you need to say the following words to yourself at least three times:

“In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. I cook food for my son-in-law and mother-in-law, As people love pies, So let my son-in-law love his mother-in-law, Love and respect. He speaks kind words, Does not blame her, does not grumble. Get down to business, get to work. So that everything I do, everything is in time. Amen".

It is important that both the future groom and parents eat the cake, a piece from the common dish. Then the necessary energy will fill each family member, give peace and tranquility, and peace will be established between family members.

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Sometimes the bride-to-be makes a conspiracy to respect her mother-in-law for her lover, but most often the mother herself wants to immediately establish good relations and performs several rituals. This can be done right before the children come to the house to create the right energy field around the meeting place. The words of the conspiracy must be repeated three times, being alone and in silence. And although it is best to do such a conspiracy during Easter and Lent, when the atmosphere is conducive to the restoration of peaceful relations, they can be pronounced at any time of the year. Conspiracy text:

“Christ, rise again, Bless and forgive, Get out of (name of son-in-law), demon. So that he does not swear at me, Do not get angry and do not eat up. To love and be kind. Now and forever, everywhere and everywhere. Amen".

Even if the family has good relations, during the Great Easter holiday, you can conduct a small ceremony and pronounce the words of the conspiracy. Then peace and a friendly atmosphere in the family will never go wrong, and the son-in-law and mother-in-law will be friendly to each other.

Building relationships

Some people do not turn to white magic rituals until they realize that other methods of repairing relationships do not work. It is litter or conflict that is often the reason for turning to conspiracies and rituals, because not a single family wants to be in a state of enmity. But different views on some issues and misunderstandings that arise between family members are oppressive and debilitating. Therefore, many wise mothers or even young spouses decide to conduct a ceremony to restore relationships.

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A conspiracy to return peace to the family is carried out on the new moon, so that as the month grows in the sky, relationships are strengthened and the conflict dissolves. It is best to speak water, give a drink to all participants in the misunderstanding. A glass of water is spoken with these words:

“Ilya the Prophet throws his arrows, sends the army to the glory of God. May the Lord send his angels like this. The angels of God will come, they will bring peace to the family. Reconcile, Lord, through your angels, native and foreign blood, quarrelsome mother-in-law and son-in-law, (names). Restore, Lord, peace and goodness, forgive, Lord, sins and bad thoughts. Amen".

It will take about two weeks to wait for the result, during which time the relationship between mother-in-law and son-in-law will gradually improve, the conflict will be forgotten. And a month later, on the next new moon, the rite should be repeated to consolidate the effect. Then peace and respect for all members will be restored in the family.

Sometimes the son-in-law himself comes to the conclusion that it is necessary to perform a magical ritual and regain the respect of the mother-in-law. It is more difficult for men to believe in such rituals, but some situations force them to turn to white magic. Sometimes a husband asks his wife for help, and then the overall energy gives the best results. To carry out the conspiracy, the spouses must dim the lights, light a few candles, kneel and hold hands. The text of the conspiracy is spoken only by the husband:

“If the mother-in-law wants to quarrel, everything will immediately become aggravated in the hustle and bustle. How she adores her daughter, let her not scold me out of anger. I read lines for her love, I chase away all troubles and troubles. The mother-in-law will respect the son-in-law, and will no longer humiliate. In the name of the Lord and his angels. Amen".

Repeat the words three times and wait for the result. In a few days, the young spouse will feel warming from the wife's mother, and then the relationship will begin to improve.

Important conditions for conspiracies

In order to carry out any ritual of white magic, you need to prepare. It is important to take a shower before starting the plot and put on all clean clothes to show the purity of your soul and your intentions. The rite should be aimed only at improving relations, at restoring peace, and in no case should assume anything bad.

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During the conspiracy, the following rules must be observed:

• Stay alone in the room, close the door, exclude all extraneous and unnecessary sounds.
• Light a few candles, it is desirable that they be consecrated in the church.
• It is better to cover the head with a scarf or shawl.
• Tune in to a positive outcome of the conspiracy, think only about the good and avoid bad thoughts.
• You need to read the texts aloud, but quietly, in half a voice. At the same time, try to imagine pictures of good and kind relationships, love and harmony between all family members.

Since ancient times, conspiracies have helped people in various difficult situations, so to this day, many resort to such rituals. Some family members may not know why everyone in the family is kind and respectful to each other. And the power of white magic works and protects everyone from trouble.

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conspiracy for peace between son-in-law and mother-in-law.

When a son-in-law and a mother-in-law quarrel, the wife suffers first of all, because she has to rush between her beloved husband and mother.

“... For almost fifteen years, the enmity between my mother and my husband Mikhail has been going on. Moreover, this enmity began long before the wedding, when my mother opposed our communication. Despite the categorical prohibitions of my mother, we slowly met with Mikhail. Our meetings ended with my pregnancy, and when we came to my parents for blessings, my mother said that she would do everything to kill Misha from the world. I hoped that over time, my mother would calm down, fall in love with her grandson, and finally, just come to terms with my choice. However, I underestimated the character and endurance of my mother, because she not only did not reconcile, but also began to hate my husband even more. Unfortunately, my daughter was born disabled, and instead of helping me lift her to her feet, my mother says every time that this is a punishment for my disobedience.

By the way, my husband also does not treat my mother very well. He even forbade me to invite her into the house and take money or gifts from her for my daughter. We live very difficult, in constant conflicts and quarrels. Mom persuades me to get a divorce, and leaving Misha, go to live with her. My husband, in turn, scolds me for talking with my mother (once he told me that Lenochka was born sick because of curses).

I understand that in order to survive and raise our girl to her feet, we must make peace and unite, but I can’t imagine how this can be done. I really hope that maybe with the help of magic I will be able to fulfill my dream.”

In order to reconcile loved ones, you need to pronounce a conspiracy for peace between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law.

The plot is read on the threshold of the house. Before you begin to pronounce a conciliatory conspiracy, you need to put a willow rod on the threshold. Then say the following words to him nine times:

"My cause is right,

Willow rod, do not break and do not rot,

And obey my words,

And you, servant of God (husband's name) and God's servant (mother's name),

Submit to my words, and make peace forever!

I will drive away all insults, all anger, all trouble from my doorstep with this rod,

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How to reconcile with mother-in-law?

The eternal conflict of generations. What is it caused by? And how to deal with it? What is the reason for the so common hatred between mother-in-law and son-in-law? The fact is that most men do not even try to find a common language with their wife's mother. And mothers-in-law, in turn, often do not want to accept the chosen one of their daughter.

The essence of the conflict is that the mother does not want to give her little daughter into the wrong hands. After all, she had raised and raised her for so long, and now she just had to give her to some strange man. The young man believes that the girl he loves completely belongs to him.

But the essence of the conflict is usually very veiled, and often the mother-in-law and son-in-law do not even understand what the offense is. It’s just that some kind of incomprehensible hostility appears, scandals over trifles begin: he didn’t wash the dishes in the right way, he hung up his clothes in the wrong way, he said something wrong.

It is common for the mother-in-law, relying on her great life experience, to touch on the topic of responsibility in order to hook her son-in-law to the quick. This topic is the most painful for men, especially when responsibility is their weak point. The mother-in-law constantly points out to the son-in-law what he could not do, where he made mistakes, and so on. And men don't like it the most. This is where the conflict kicks in.

What to do to keep the relationship normal?

Vedic philosophy gives some advice on this.

First, as in the relationship between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, a man should treat his wife's parents even better than his own. And this must be sincere, that is, it must be confirmed by the manifestation of feelings, and not just words. If a man finds what role the mother played in the life of his wife, how much effort she put in to raise such a beautiful daughter, and begins to appreciate it, then soon the conflict on a subconscious level will be reduced to zero. Here are wonderful friendships, even possibly family relationships.

It’s just that a mother-in-law is much more difficult to treat her daughter’s chosen one than her daughter. Because, as a rule, their children forgive a lot and accept a lot. But with strangers, the situation is completely different, so even a small offense can sit in the mother-in-law's heart for a long time.

If the mother-in-law climbs very strongly into the relationship of the spouses, then the conflict cannot be avoided. It often happens that a mother simply does not give up her daughter and continues to control her, not realizing that she is already an adult and has her own family. In this case, the man must fulfill his duties as the head of the family. He should clearly outline the boundaries of possible interference for the mother-in-law. But, most importantly, he must do this with respect for his mother-in-law and showing how much he appreciates her daughter. He must convince his wife's mother that now he will fulfill her duties in relation to her daughter. And that he will really protect her, love and take care of her, as her mother did. A man must show responsibility towards his new family.

It is important to remember the essence of such a conflict and to avoid quarrels, you need to respect each other's opinions. However, it is best for your young family to live separately from their parents and only visit them from time to time.

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Parents always worry about their children, no matter if they are young or adults. Every mother has a heartache for her adult daughter when she starts an independent life and creates her own family. And it is very important that the marriage be happy, that the person who is next to her loves and respects not only her daughter, but also her parents. To help find harmony in the family will help the plot of the mother-in-law on the son-in-law to love his daughter.

For the rite to work, you need to adhere to certain rules and recommendations of experts in the field of esotericism. It is very important before you conduct a strong conspiracy at home, take a shower, put on clean and bright clothes. Intentions must be sincere. Magical actions should be aimed at improving relationships, and not taking revenge on someone or making them love, there should be no bad intentions.

1. Stay in a room alone, close the door so that no one interferes, including pets. Also, extraneous sounds should not interfere.
2. Be sure to use church candles.
3. Cover your head with a scarf or shawl.
4. What is important is a positive attitude that the conspiracy will work and bring the desired results.
5. Magic words must be spoken in a low voice.

Effective Rituals

Conspiracies for respect so that the son-in-law respects the mother-in-law, so that the mother-in-law treats her daughter's husband well, for mutual respect of the spouses, are very effective. They help in different situations to prevent conflicts, to achieve mutual understanding.

For a son-in-law to love his daughter

So that the daughter's husband always loves her and never cheats, the mother can conduct effective rituals. To prevent the betrayal of the daughter’s spouse, to return him home, you need to get up with the first rays of the sun, go to the open window, overshadow yourself with a cross, the following prayer is read:

“As clearly as the sun appears daily in heaven, let it never change, so may the servant of God (name) never change my beloved daughter, always keep her swan fidelity and honor her as a beloved wife and mother of his children. The key is in the lock, I will drown the key in the ocean-sea. May it be so".

When the plot is read, you need to drink some consecrated water, go on to sleep in silence, without talking to anyone.

So that the son-in-law respects the mother-in-law

Most often, the future mother-in-law and son-in-law meet at the table, for example, during tea or dinner. You can use this and conduct a rite of respect so that the son-in-law respects the mother-in-law, does not argue and does not swear. The bride-to-be should bake a pie or cake. During cooking, say a very effective conspiracy three times that will help her future spouse and mother establish contact and reach mutual understanding:

“In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. I will cook food for the son-in-law and for the mother-in-law. As people love sweets - pies, cakes and pastries, muffins, so let the son-in-law dove his mother-in-law, love, respect, do not grumble or grumble. Let him speak only kind words, do not grumble, do not blame. Get down to business, get to work. So that everything I do, everything is in time. Amen".

It is very important that both future spouses and parents taste the cooked dish. So positive energy and harmony will fill all family members, help to find peace in relationships, peace and mutual understanding.

There is also a very good ritual for gaining respect from the son-in-law. It is held on Easter or during a period of strict fasting. Read in the morning with the first rays of the rising sun:

“Lord Almighty, grant your blessing, grant your forgiveness. Get out of (name of son-in-law), besi. Let him not yell at me, swear, grumble and hiss, neither in my eyes, nor behind my back. Let him not get angry and eat up. And it will only be kind and sweet, polite. May it always be so.”

After this ritual, relations are stabilized, mutual respect will appear. You can repeat this ceremony every year, but not more than once a year.

For the mother-in-law to respect the son-in-law

To achieve the respect of the mother-in-law, the son-in-law can perform a ritual. The spell will help the mother-in-law to be kinder, more compliant and accommodating. Spouses can perform magical actions together. To get the good attitude of the mother of the wife, you need to light candles, kneel down. If the ceremony is performed by both spouses, they must join hands. Magic words are read by a man:

“If my mother-in-law wants to scold, quarrel, enter into a conflict, everything immediately becomes aggravated in the bustle. Just as a mother loves and respects her daughter, so don’t be angry with me, let the anger be forgotten, pass, all bad things will come to an end. And in return there will be only kindness and respect. On my mother-in-law's love, I will read the lines, drive away all troubles, sorrows and troubles. Let the mother-in-law respect her son-in-law, never humiliate him again. In the name of all saints and higher powers. In the name of Christ, the Lord and the angels. May it be so".

Repeat these words three times. The result will not keep you waiting. In a few days, the wife's mother will become kinder, warmer, relations will gradually improve.

Return the son-in-law to the family

To make your daughter happy, to save her from the bad attitude of her beloved, to return her son-in-law to the family, if there was a discord between the spouses, perform the following ceremony. The ritual for a good attitude of the son-in-law to the daughter is carried out during the new moon. It is believed that along with the growth of the month in heaven, harmony among spouses will increase, peace will increase, relationships will become stronger, the conflict will be exhausted faster or will not happen at all. It is recommended to read the conspiracy for spring, spring or well water, and then let your daughter and her husband drink. They have to take a few sips. Sprinkle the threshold and corners of their house with the remaining liquid. A conspiracy is read by the mother-in-law or mother-in-law so that the young family is strong:

“Ilya the Prophet throws his arrows, sends the army to the glory of God. May the Lord send his angels like this. The angels of God will come, they will bring peace to the family. Reconcile, Lord, through your angels, native and foreign blood, quarrelsome mother-in-law and son-in-law (names). Restore, Lord, peace and goodness, forgive, Lord, sins and bad thoughts. Amen".

Usually, the first results after the ritual are visible after 14 days, the relationship will become strong, all misunderstandings and conflicts will be settled. And a month later, on the next new moon, it is recommended to repeat the ritual, so its effect will be fixed.