Netizens discussed 10 qualities that girls with special charm have.

In Korea, "maeryuk", which translates to "unique attractiveness", is considered as important a trait as beauty or kindness. The boundaries of this uniqueness can range from manifestations of masculinity, femininity, charm, and other qualities that make you stand out from the crowd.

The original post appeared on Pann, In it, netizens have compiled a list of qualities in a girl that can turn a guy off.

“10 qualities in girls that repel guys,” below you will find the translation of the article and user comments.

"1. Girls who are not easy to talk to. When a man tries to interest them in a conversation, the girls have fun themselves and don’t even know how to answer. They don’t even know how to start and continue a conversation correctly.”

“2. Shy girls think that they are not interesting because they are not sociable and do not know how to be funny in communication. But this is all wrong, girls without “maeryuk” cannot know why men are not interested in them.”

“3. Girls who think there are no men around them because they have a cold heart and are too chic, when in fact they just don’t have that special trait.”

"4. Girls who have no sexual attractiveness and who don’t know what men want from a relationship. They just think that all men are the same and they need the same things.”

"5. Girls who think that just positive reactions to guys' conversations make her special. But they don’t understand the difference between them and the popular girls around.”

“6. Girls who don’t understand or don’t want to understand what makes them unique. They just blindly believe that they have some attractive feature.”

“7. Girls with too high demands. The guy must be at least 180 cm tall, attractive, with a good body and kind. They don’t care what the men around them think of them and naively believe that they fit above average standards.”

"8. Girls who complain to everyone around them about relationship problems. Everyone has their problems, but these girls are just driving everyone crazy with theirs. And they don’t even understand what they’re doing.”

"9. A girl who thinks that if a guy looks at her, it means he likes her. Girls make this mistake all the time. Some attractive girls can tell guys' signs from mere glances, but these girls can't.”

"10. Girls who are proud or stubborn even in small things. And when people try to express their opinion to them, they don’t even know how to listen to advice and simply ignore it.”

[ +284 / -3] Are you talking about me now? You're just describing me... That's probably why there aren't any guys around me

[ +197 / -3] When I read articles like this... I wonder what my unique feature is...

[ +59 / -2] But do people have to be funny? ? People with the same interests always find each other. I will be respectful and keep the conversation going, but I won't seek out someone who isn't right for me just to talk to someone. I want to find someone who will appreciate me for who I am, because sooner or later they would recognize the real me. Like, for example, the author of this post doesn’t want to date a girl who isn’t funny, but I want to meet someone who looks a little deeper. I think that as long as there is chemistry between people, that's enough to keep the conversation going. I think it's personal preference.

[ +55 / -7]Guys who don't have an attractive feature = guys who write articles like this

[ +48 / -4] Another offensive post... First think about whether there is something special about you

1. The Republic of Korea or South Korea (hereinafter referred to as simply Korea) is a very safe country. A girl may not be afraid to walk through a residential area alone at night.

2. Cases of major crime, such as murder, are considered unprecedented and are covered on local news for weeks.

3. The best time to visit Korea is spring, when the cherry blossoms bloom, and autumn, when the leaves on the trees turn yellow. In winter it is very cold and windy, in summer it is incredibly hot, humid and rainy.

4. The territory of the country is very small, so civilization has penetrated into all its corners. It is impossible to get lost in Korea, and there are no remote villages here.

5. The most popular sport in Korea is baseball. Everyone plays it, from young to old; almost everyone has a baseball bat. Baseball games, especially big ones, are always sold out.

6. In second place in popularity is golf. It is played by middle-aged men. And when they reach old age, all Koreans go to the mountains.

7. Walking in the mountains is such a favorite pastime for Koreans. They can get up at 8 am after a wild drinking session and still climb the mountain.

8. 90% of Koreans are nearsighted and have to wear glasses or contact lenses. People wear glasses from childhood, which involuntarily creates the impression that they are born with poor vision.

9. Absolutely all Koreans use Internet Explorer. They have no idea about other browsers, and what’s more, most don’t even know what a browser is. Korean sites, accordingly, are made only for Explorer; in any other browser, not a single Korean site will work correctly.

1 0. Many Koreans, in order to open Google, first open naver.com (this is a Korean search engine and not only), type “Google” in Korean into the search and then click on the link.

11. Koreans love coffee very much, and coffee shops can be found here at every turn. After lunch or dinner, be sure to have a cup of coffee.

12. Free Internet can always be found: in any institutions, cafes and even on buses.

13. Coffee shop chains, cinema chains, supermarket chains, restaurant chains, bar chains, department store chains - if an establishment doesn't have a clone somewhere in Korea, it means it hasn't matured yet.

14. Domestic product is highly supported in Korea, so many imported products such as toothpastes, gum, sanitary pads, chips, etc. cannot be found.

15. Agriculture is one of the most important sectors of the economy. Cabbage beds, turnip gardens and rice fields can be found even in the city center.

16. Dentist services are very expensive, so all Koreans carefully monitor their dental hygiene. They brush their teeth after every meal and coffee, often carry a toothbrush with them in their bag, and in some establishments you can find free brushes right in the toilet.

17. Education plays perhaps the most important role in the life of any Korean. Koreans study from early morning until late at night, regardless of the day of the week, and use the holidays for additional courses or independent study.

1 8. There is no such thing as a vacation in Korea. There are a few days, usually in early August, when many workers take time off to relax or travel abroad.

19. There are two major national holidays: Lunar New Year and the Autumn Festival, when Korea is closed for three days. There is no more time for rest.

20. A teacher in a public educational institution can only be fired by the president himself. This profession is extremely respected and highly paid.

21. Overweight Koreans are very rare. Really thick - almost never.

22. Girls readily show off their legs, but never their cleavage.

23. Most Korean women have small breasts and a flat butt, but very slender legs.

24. That's why plastic surgery is booming. A girl can inflate her breasts literally in one lunch break. After graduating from school and entering college, most girls fix their eyelids, noses, or something else as a gift.

25. Korean women take great care of their skin and hair and use an incredible amount of cosmetics and beauty products. Korean women do not go out without makeup.

26. Many people admit that Korean women are more beautiful than Japanese, Chinese and other Asian women. Even if their beauty is somewhat artificial.

27. Despite all the cleanliness on the streets in Korea, it is very difficult to find a trash can.

28. All Koreans sing well and therefore love karaoke.

29. Everyone has cell phones, even the homeless.

30. Any phone can be borrowed for two years.

31. In Korea, the shopping rush begins after 7-8 pm and in some areas continues until late at night.

32. Young men are not supposed to bring girls to their homes, which is why there are a lot of motels in Korea. So many.

33. Motels peacefully coexist with churches: they say, if you commit adultery, pray.

34. Every single guy is required to do military service, unless he is disabled.

35. There is some kind of food cult in Korea. Instead of “how are you?” Koreans ask “Did you eat well?”, skipping at least one meal is considered almost a sin, and the verb “eat” can replace many other verbs, such as “drink alcohol”, “take medicine”, “breathe fresh air” and even “ grow up a year."

36. Koreans eat a lot and variety. Kimchi and other snacks are required at the table. Lunch is rarely limited to just one dish; when you think you're full, they bring you more plates until you burst.

37. Any Korean will tell you about any Korean dish that it is incredibly healthy. Most often for some reason for men's health.

38. Koreans probably drink even more than Russians. They get drunk quickly, but never get rowdy. Even a drunk Korean is not particularly dangerous.

39. Every Korean knows a hundred or two very noisy drinking games aimed at getting everyone drunk as quickly as possible.

40. Koreans are very generous and sympathetic people. They will definitely want to pay for your lunch and will never refuse help.

41. In Korea, it is customary to greet janitors, bus drivers and cleaners, in general, everyone. You show respect to your elder, and it doesn’t matter who he works for.

42. It’s hard to believe, but according to one source, 25% of Korean women have experience working in the intimate service sector: these are prostitutes, escort services and girls “for communication” in bars and karaoke.

43. Most married men cheat on their wives, and that's okay.

44. Most married Korean women do not work at all while raising children.

45. All older women look the same: the same short, chemically styled hairstyles, the same clothes, the same hats.

46. There are no stray dogs in Korea. Few people keep large dogs either, but it is very fashionable to have a small pocket dog, dye its fur in bright colors and dress it in funny clothes.

47. Contrary to popular stereotypes, very few Koreans have tried dog meat.

48. Foreigners in Korea are divided into two categories: exchange students and English teachers.

49. Koreans prefer to sit on the floor than sit on a chair or sofa.

50. Either the weather forecast is never wrong, or Koreans always, always carry an umbrella in their bag, but a Korean cannot be caught off guard by rain.

51. In Korea, flooding occurs frequently due to rainfall.

52. Every Korean's wallet is filled with business cards and various savings and discount cards and coupons.

53. Koreans listen mostly to Korean music. From Western performers they listen to what is fashionable.

54. Korean music is mostly pop music, boy bands and girl bands are no different from each other.

55. For each song, each musical group has its own dance, which fans know by heart.

56. There are no plazas in Korea. There are only areas in front of some buildings.

57. In many bars you can't just drink beer; you must order snacks to go with your beer. Koreans themselves cannot just drink beer; they definitely need to chew something while doing it.

60. Nobody cares that a young beautiful girl advertises an alcoholic drink everywhere.

61. When meeting people, the first thing Koreans do is find out their age. This is important for future communication style. If the interlocutor is at least a year older, you should address him in a polite manner, be respectful and helpful.

62. Koreans are often tactless when asking personal questions like “do you have a boyfriend?” or “why aren’t you married?”

63. Young Koreans are turning romantic relationships into just another drama they watch on TV.

64. In Korea you can smoke almost everywhere. Signs prohibiting smoking are often simply ignored.

65. It's rare to see a girl on the street with a cigarette. There are generally few girls who smoke and they only smoke in bars and clubs.

66. You can drink alcohol on the street. Koreans often have impromptu picnics with alcohol and barbecues in the most unexpected places.

67. Koreans often laugh for no reason, in response to any phrase or the most unfunny joke. They are especially happy when a foreigner speaks Korean.

68. There is a park in Korea filled with sculptures of male members.

69. In Korea, almost no one calls anyone by name or says “you” or “you.” There are many special words for addressing, for each case of kinship and relationship.

70. When a Korean calls someone to him, he holds his hand with the palm down, and not up, as in other countries.

The first thing that comes to mind is that they are cute and terribly aegyo. So if you like brutal, big and strong men, then this is definitely not the place for you in Korea!( Although we must remember that there are always exceptions, and first of all, they are guys, regardless of nation.) But if outwardly they are such sweethearts, then their character is truly masculine. All Koreans are very hardworking. So if you have a Korean husband, you will definitely never be left without a piece of bread, since they work very hard, and if there is no work, then this is a disaster for a Korean.

They are also true gentlemen. Even if you are friends, they will help you carry bags, open doors, buy all sorts of goodies, cook bulgogi in the end. They are very caring, they will constantly ask whether you have eaten, slept, dressed warmly, etc. Koreans also text a lot, so if you have your sights set on a Korean boyfriend, get ready that he will text and call you every second, asking you everything about how your day was, what you did, what you ate, so get ready. 🙂

As for dating, it is unlikely that someone will come up to you on the street to meet you; it is even more unlikely that a Korean guy, after your refusal, will continue to try to get to know you and will start nagging about this topic. Of course, there are exceptions everywhere, but the probability of such a scenario is practically zero. Because they are modest and it is not customary for them. And approaching a non-Korean woman is a complete disaster for them, to be honest, but if you are in a club or bar, then they might still pluck up the courage. But don’t worry, if you want to meet them, sooner or later this will happen, for example, through friends or at an opportunity.

The next point in my review is the post-acquaintance stage. Well, one problem may arise here: he doesn’t know English (Russian, of course), and you don’t know Korean. It doesn’t matter, there is always a way out - sign language. 🙂

One more piece of advice, if you still have your sights set on a Korean boyfriend, then take the trouble to learn at least a couple of basic phrases in Korean. And also read Korean history, study the culture. Even with minimal knowledge about Korea, the payoff is enormous. They will be so happy. And of course, the universal theme is K-pop and dramas. You can't go wrong here.

Also, most Korean guys are terrible fashionistas. Apart from the general love for Nike sneakers and black-framed glasses (which, by the way, suit many people), in all other respects they follow fashion as it should. And although sometimes in an attempt to keep up with fashion they go a little too far, they still dress great. You won't see a Korean in a tracksuit except in the gym. Most likely, it’s an innate sense of style; all Asians have it.

Returning to aegyoshnost. I admit, half of my European friends consider them to be slightly of the wrong orientation. Koreans are too cute. For example, I don’t think that if a guy is powerful, smelly and hairy, that means he’s a real man! I'm all for beauty. Many Koreans (almost all of them, probably) take care of their faces, which is why their skin is smooth and beautiful. And some people dye their hair blonde (but mostly they end up with a brick color that is characteristic only of them) or get a permanent haircut. So, if you see a Korean with dyed hair or a perm, it means that he is terribly fashionable! And also, when they walk in pairs with girls, it turns into a real tsunami of aegyosity and tenderness, since they can wear, and in Disneyland, Mickey Mouse ears and bows.

To sum up everything written above, I can say that Korean oppas are like this due to national characteristics, and when you study their culture, you understand that they should be like this: sweet, modest and responsible. They make great friends and even better boyfriends. Of course, now is the age of globalization, and Koreans want with all their might to be like Europeans... but they do it in a very Asian way.

I translated this little article simply because I liked it. I love articles about Korea with humor. By the way, the blog is very interesting - askakorean.blogspot.com. There, “live” Koreans answer questions about themselves.

"Dear girls!

According to Gustavo Arellano, the most frequently asked question about Mexicans is “Why do Mexicans swim with their clothes on?” As for Koreans, the most frequently asked question here is: “What do Korean guys like/dislike/ about girls? how do they feel about girls? How do they behave with girls? Etc.".

Most questions come with the addition of an incredibly long story from the lives of these girls, so I can immediately guess what the email will be about if the sender’s address looks like [email protected], and the letter itself weighs about 200 kb. I answered some of these letters privately, some on this site, and some I was never able to answer because sometimes I don’t even know where to start.

Some of the letters are written about Korean men who find themselves with non-Korean women, but most of the letters seem to be a direct result of the recent wave of popularity of dramas and their actors. Koreans now stand out from the rest of the world's men into a category of their own, and they seem to be the objects of love fantasies for many non-Korean women.

So, answers to your most frequently asked questions.

Will a Korean guy date a non-Korean (white/black/latino/south asian/martian)?

There's only one thing you need to remember about Korean men, and that's that they are men first and Koreans second. Do you have breasts and a vagina? Then at least some Koreans will be interested in you. This happens quite rarely, but then interracial relationships are always quite rare.
I want to clearly emphasize: KOREAN MEN ARE EXACTLY THE SAME LIKE ALL MEN. Dramas rely on the fact that you stupid women are always trying to find men who don't exist in the real world. Please stop. No man expects a woman to cook like Rachael Ray or swear like Jenna Jameson. The same should apply to your expectations from men.

What qualities do Korean guys look for in a woman? What should I do to make a Korean guy like me?

Like I said earlier: try to cook something for him. But this advice usually works for all men. There is no special love elixir that will only work with Koreans. Just be yourself. And give him a blowjob (advice from a Korean girl).

Why do Korean guys want to get married so early?

There is a huge societal pressure on this - Koreans need to be married by a certain age. And if this age is passed, the guys end up on a hot sale. Korean women have it even worse, but men are definitely affected by it as well.

What does it mean if a Korean guy gives you a four-leaf clover/hairpin/doll/some other nonsense?

There is no such thing as an ultra-super-special-gift-from-Korean-boyfriend-to-girlfriend (except for special holidays). A gift is just a gift. If he is hiding mega-secret ins and outs, then the guy will probably tell you about it himself. Remember girls, you are the only ones who like to play detective games with hints and all. Guys never give it that much importance. If he stopped answering your calls, then yes, you should worry, this is a clear hint.

Why can't my Korean boyfriend show his feelings? Why does this Korean guy who seems to like me only talk to me every now and then? Why do I feel like the heroine of a Greek tragedy involving me and a Korean?

Here's my answer - I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING! Stop flooding my inbox with your 20-page sob stories! If you need sincere help, read this article. I repeat again: Koreans are men first, then Koreans. Whatever relationship problems you have, 99% of the time it's because he's a man and maybe only 1% is because he's Korean. Before sending a letter to the address below, please, please, PLEASE, first think carefully about your situation, rule out any possible non-racial/cultural issues, and then ask me."

A few more things:

1. Most Koreans are racists. This means that they despise people whose skin is darker than theirs. For example, South Asians are darker than Koreans, so draw your own conclusions. It is clear that in many cases your relationship will not be based on respect.

Even if your boyfriend is not racist, his parents, relatives and friends definitely will be. This will make your long-term relationship or marriage extremely difficult. Your boyfriend may be forced to make a choice between you and all the other people he knows. Guess who he's most likely to choose?

2. I do not recommend using marriage agencies. Be INCREDIBLY careful about them. Korean men turn to marriage agencies only if NOT ONE KOREAN WOMAN AGREES TO MARRY THEM. So there is a reason for this. Of course, there are just losers (Korean women don’t really want to marry divorced people or those living in the countryside). But most often the reason is that you have met the classic type of Korean whose hobby includes beating their wives.

3. Also beware of Korean men 30-40 years old, most often Koreans at this age are racist and manipulators who disrespect women. Remember, if a Korean is single and has already turned, for example, 33 years old, this means that either he is in some special circumstances, or something is wrong with this person.

4. And lastly: don’t make two classic female mistakes that all women make about the men in their lives: “He’s not like others” and “He can change for me.” The first statement is correct only 20% of the time, and the second is never true.

The morning turned out to be cool and fresh. Mountain slopes in the distance shrouded in transparent fog, a cup of aromatic coffee on the table, anticipation of adventure and anticipation of a miracle... What else is needed for happiness? Perhaps the only ideal South Korean man with whom you can share all the delights of traveling to the “land of morning freshness”!

Black-haired handsome men with musical names and surnames look at us languidly and passionately from television screens. Athletically built guys with a charming smile and a sensual voice seem to have descended from heaven as beautiful angels in human form, or at least knights in white Hyundais. Korean men are noble, generous and romantic; in courage and bravery they can only be compared with Schwarzenegger and Van Damme. In love, they are tender and at the same time passionate, in a word - wonderful lovers, whom one can only dream of and hope to meet with them... In any case, this is how the heroes of Korean dramas seem to us, which have filled the television airwaves and have become favorites and most often viewed. This is how we want to see the Korean guys we meet in real life. When meeting Sog Woo, Chun Won, Woo Jin and other “Korean macho men,” we tend to idealize them, identifying them with the characters of our favorite films... But are they really that? What are Korean guys really like? What are black-haired beauties like? What should you be wary of when going hunting for Koreans? What should you expect? And is it even worth it? These and a hundred other questions that torment women require answers... So, everything you wanted and didn’t want to know about Koreans, only here and now. Let me introduce you to the men of South Korea!

Getting to know each other: the first step is the most difficult...

You will meet HIM at work, in a nightclub, or on a “blind date” organized by your mutual friends. By and large, there are no other options, because acquaintance between people of the opposite sex in Korea is possible only if they have a common activity (university, enterprise, interest club), common friends (the most common pimping takes place here) or common the desire to get drunk and dance (you can and even need to meet people in a nightclub and bar!). According to the Korean mentality, making friends and partners in other places, especially public ones, is not accepted and, in principle, indecent. Therefore, sad as it is, most often there is no opportunity to meet a “hot Korean guy”... After all, only the most atypical, liberated, Americanized and completely sick Korean will decide to meet a girl HIMSELF on the street, in a cafe or other crowded place! Despite globalization, the sexual revolution and widespread American-centrism, people here are still committed to tradition with all the ensuing consequences. This means that relationships between the sexes are still complicated, dating is problematic, and life in general is devoid of spontaneity and healthy adventurism... However, you can always take the initiative into your own hands and “accidentally” pour coffee on HIM (alternatives: knocking over a tray with kimbab, tripping, pushing), say “Anyohaseyo!” This pseudo-cinema way of dating, according to the testimony of the Korean guys themselves, will be regarded as very original and, oddly enough, natural...

Communication continues, or the fight against culture shock

So, the long-awaited acquaintance with the individual I liked took place. It is impossible to say with complete certainty that your Korean prince turned out to be the owner of a charming smile, a wonderful sense of humor or a chic white Hyundai... however, we can say with absolute certainty that he turned out to be the bearer of an innate sense of style, which, in most cases, is only understandable just for him... Elk-shaped tight trousers, a pink shirt with appliqués, silver boots, earrings with rhinestones and a shiny shoulder bag - this is a very detailed portrait of the Korean style icon... When you meet such a gentleman, you will undoubtedly experience a cultured shock, but there will be something to remember upon arrival back home... And, most likely, not all the details of this portrait will be characteristic of HIM, because, fortunately, not every Korean guy is worthy of being called a style icon...

So, having come to your senses, you found out his name and age, as well as other facts of his biography that interested you. There is no doubt that you will not remember his name the first time, because it is too atypical for the Russian ear, long and, by and large, meaningless... Nevertheless, strain your memory and memorize these three syllables or... flatter him, comparing him with a popular American actor, and henceforth call him Brad, Mal or Pierce... In the course of further communication, you will notice that Woo Jin, Jae Kyun and Seung Woo are polite, friendly, a little shy and, in general, not too confident in to yourself. There is nothing unusual in this, since in South Korea most guys are insecure and modest, and they are well aware of this, speak openly about it and are almost proud, explaining the uniqueness of their culture... Koreans are also very pleasant to talk to, however, at the same time, they have no initiative and are completely deprived of the opportunity to do what they want... This is the tragic conflict in the life of any Korean guy. However, you will talk about this much later, but for now enjoy the communication.

A Korean man, modest and unsure of himself, upon closer examination will turn out to be a very sweet and interesting conversationalist. After all, he knows how to listen carefully, smiles and laughs a lot (often out of politeness, since it is always difficult for him to understand foreign jokes), loves to give non-binding compliments, and when he drinks, he can even “speak beautifully.” The problem is that in order to become “normal”, or in other words to loosen up, he needs to drink at least a few bottles of soju (or, at worst, beer). Only after this symbolic act will the Korean be able to be himself, only after it will he be capable of at least something!

In short, this is where the fun begins. After a couple of drinking games (of which Korean culture is rich and famous), the Korean guy finally forgets about all the prohibitions and taboos and becomes more or less adequate. From this moment on, he has the constitutional right to say and do what nature and his day-to-day suppressed libido tell him to do. And here Sog Woo, Woo Jin and Do Hyun will not miss theirs! However, after the alcoholic haze subsides from his eyes, everything will return to normal and he will again become the cold and reserved man you knew when you first met... or he will disappear from your life forever. This, perhaps, is the second tragic collision in his life: having finally done what was forbidden for so long, he suffers from a guilt complex, tries to forget that he violated his cultural code and immediately returns to his former life. an extremely ordered life.

Almighty schedule

One of the great joys in the lives of Sang Han, Chun Won and Hong Joon is the opportunity to organize and systematize this very life. That is why his thoughts and actions largely depend on the almighty “schedule”. An exam, a meeting with friends, a date, a visit to parents, and even a banal shopping trip to the store across the street - all these life events are first carefully worked out in the brain for pros and cons, then carefully planned and included in the schedule, and then only then, in the event of a favorable combination of circumstances, are they put into practice. Thus, any kind of spontaneity and improvisation in relationships is not practiced and in most cases is not welcomed. Therefore, dates are scheduled at least three days in advance, and events such as “first kiss” and “meeting parents” are planned for weeks and months. Having a schedule and following it is considered, among other things, a sign of maturity and a good prerequisite for becoming a successful person in the future. By the way, speaking about success, I would like to touch on the topic of education.

We all learned a little, something and somehow...

Such a statement, without a doubt, could only belong to Eugene Onegin... or his descendant-compatriot, idly passing the time within the walls of the university and experiencing all the delights of student life. As for the Korean student, such an approach to life and learning in general can only be dreamed of in a nightmare. The quality of education, its cost, as well as the unemployment rate in Korea are very high. For these reasons, and perhaps because of their innate workaholism, Hong Joons, Sog Woo, Seung Jons and other Korean students take their studies very seriously and devote most of their free time to it, their beloved. They study diligently day and night, gnaw on the granite of science at home, at the university and in the library, where they often spend the night, and also love to complain about their difficult fate as students and the terrible difficulties that the South Korean economy is experiencing today... However, on ordinary days, the inadequate craving for study and the touching resistance of Korean students to entertainment can be easily broken, if only there was a desire and an opportunity! But when it comes to a session, even the sexiest and wittiest girl is powerless. It’s sad, but at this important period in their lives, handsome black-haired men are ready to prefer an evening in the library and a night cuddling with their favorite textbook to a romantic date with a beauty. ..

How does he live and breathe...

So, study, and subsequently work, play an important role in his life. Nothing can be done about it, it’s not even worth fighting, because workaholism is something that has been embedded in his subconscious since birth. However, daily and nightly work does not exclude the opportunity to have fun sometimes. In their free time, Joon Pil, Seog Woo, Ki Sung likes to go to a karaoke bar, play rock-paper-scissors and drink with friends at their favorite bar a very cheap, but quite good drink from a green bottle, whose name is Soju . Among other things, he would like to go to a Korean restaurant (every Korean is a patriot of Korean cuisine and, frankly, a real kimchiman), go shopping at the Dongdaemun night market, smoke a couple of cigarettes and let a beautiful girl get to know him. In general, these are all the joys that a Korean man experiences in his life.

Love affairs, family matters

However, you should not lose sight of the joys of love... Well, you are unlikely to have ever heard about the passion and unsurpassed sexual talents of Korean machos, as well as about Korean machos in general. But not because they don’t exist, but because it’s not customary to talk about it here. In South Korea, unlike the USSR, sex was and is, but it is not given so much importance, it is not promoted, and especially not demonstrated unless there is a real need for it. Nevertheless, the concept of a “Korean lover” has a right to exist, if only because Koreans are great kissers and, they say, are quite good in bed. However, it is true that Koreans are in no hurry to tie the knot, or to tie themselves in general. They especially do not like to think about marriage with a representative of another nationality, since despite their ardent love for foreign women, they still remain nationalists in family matters. So, both guys and girls begin to think about marriage closer to the age of 30, but they often don’t think about children at all. Just think, a few decades ago it was customary for families to have 2-3 children, but now having at least one is considered happiness and at the same time a very heavy burden. The reason for this is emancipation, inflation, globalization and other “actions” that have a detrimental effect on Korean society. .. However, as long as the question does not turn to impotence, there is nothing to worry about!

Summary

So, it's time to draw some conclusions and sum up... A Korean man is friendly, impeccably polite, gallant and courteous. In ten percent of cases out of a hundred, he can speak passable English, in five he is nice, in two he is able to put his hand on your shoulder and even - contrary to all the rules and prohibitions - cross the road at a red light. The Korean brain is most often similar to Windows XP, which, although it works well, often freezes and is forced to reboot, but is still actively used by users in all corners of our planet. .. The heart is far from a fiery engine, but, however, it is quite capable of some feelings, even if even it is unlikely to offer you eternal love... Most often, HE has neither himself nor his time, he likes to make promises that he obviously cannot fulfill, as well as promote kimchi and soju, the unsurpassed taste of which is understandable only to Koreans and the like... But at the same time, HE is pleasant to talk to, is a good kisser and knows how to speak beautifully. The Korean macho loves to communicate with foreign women, is open to all kinds of cultural (and non-cultural) exchanges, but in matters of love and marriage he remains a consumer of the “domestic product”...

In a word, you are unlikely to have any serious relationship with a Korean guy, but this does not exclude the possibility of spending a good time with him and having fun from the heart. Enjoy life, travel to South Korea and communicate with a handsome and cultured man, taste oriental exoticism and make your trip to Korea memorable forever for both you and all Koreans! Be charming and beautiful, enchant, conquer and conquer, in a word, just be yourself, and HE will definitely be with you!

Oksana Shuptar